Both are not easy, to be honest.
I don't like hating anyone as I already have a lot on my plate. I always let time heal whatever wound was created. It's not easy to intentionally hate someone unless there's a rational reason. For peace of mind, I rather forgive than hold a grudge.
It's not easy to love either without any feelings. (Not for those who only want some fun and experience, though. But it's not love at all). As of now, I don't know how to fall in love 😂.
@ruffatotmee @ifarmgirl , bout you guys?