Some solid advice in here! You’re just a year or two older than I am I think! It is definitely challenging being parents but the best thing is to have a solid foundation between the husband and wife. My wife and I try to give each other some alone time at least every day. That’s important for sanity for sure. The only tough part for us is we have no help from our families to watch our son so we can have a date night or afternoon. Thankfully we’ve been able to just enjoy ourselves together since we only have 1 kid (hopefully not anymore either! lol) it’s manageable for us.
We just definitely plan to help our son far more than we’ve received because of the struggles we’ve been through and continue to go through with family problems.
Thanks so much for sharing these thoughts! Lots of truth here!