Hi Nomad,
We have a sensitive question.
We are coworkers who have a very touchy relationship. We are both married but have doubts about our marriages. It's not that we are intimately involved (it's a barrier neither of us is willing to cross yet) but we do have feelings for each other and the physical attraction is very much present. We are not religious people but we do feel that perhaps we might be defying some higher laws.
Do you consider what we are doing to be cheating? We really want to do the right thing but we have no idea if what we feel can have a future.
What do you think?
The Couple
Confused Ones,
You are craving to be loved and your whole being is crying for the friendship, the intimacy and the quiet moments that come with a loving relationship. The nature of the human soul is to give and receive love and therefore it constantly looks for open venues where love can be communicated. Did you know?
You surely understand then, that sharing love is very natural. How can something that is natural be wrong or bad? Notions such as good or bad belong to the world of duality. As long as you remain in that world you will keep having inner battles between good and bad. That in itself impedes solutions. In God’s eyes, there is no right or wrong and certainly no moral judgment. I say so here and now because you possess the thought that you might be punished should you follow your impulses and desires (not just sexual ones).
Leave morality aside
No God will come to punish you because no real god judges what you do. The only entity that you will ever have to answer to is yourself! And I would definitely recommend you not to judge yourself but rather to love yourself.
The only relevant question that you should ask yourself: is what we are doing appropriate and in accordance with the choice we make in our lives?
Do you choose TrueLove or do you choose hidden romances? Do you choose security, happiness, and self-fulfillment, or do you choose fear, confusion, and dishonesty? Is what you are doing respecting yourself and in accordance with your dignity? Both decisions are fine as long as YOU know what you are choosing and as long as You take responsibility for your choices.
In the past, you had the honor to marry beloved ones that are your current legitimate spouses. You connected your souls with theirs and intended a certain kind of life. I assume that you didn't vow to lie and disrespect your spouses.
In the past, you had the courage to propose to your spouses or accept their proposal. You made a choice. You showed that you were a creator. Can't you do the same thing now? Can’t you be a creator now?
Some challenging times are ahead of you because you have asked for a change. You indeed had an option to continue with your married lives as they were, but at some point, not too long ago, you made the request to move forward toward Realization. That brought a disconnection of ancient karmic ties.
Now, that life has begun to bring you what you asked for, you are a bit confused about the steps that you should take, and again I say - choose the essence of the life that you want for yourself and be bold enough to take the necessary steps to back up your decisions.
It's simple. The inner voice within you, the authentic self that you are, knows exactly what you deserve and how to achieve it. Listen to it. If you feel that you need to 'come clean' and confess to your spouses then do it. If you see no future for your marriages then have the courage to end them and move forward. But do it with respect and honor and responsibility and love, for these are the qualities that you are learning to discover in yourself.
The important lesson is the self-discovery that each of you exercises in this Drama.
Good Luck.
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