It breaks my heart to see people who are heartbroken, unfortunately feelings ain't something we can control, it is a matter of the heart and it get to decide who it want to fall in love with and the heart never choose wrongly, blame the person because the heart only chose who put a smile on your face....
It takes a second to fall in love but it is not something that just happen, it takes time, moment and lot of time to grow feelings before love struck, some people will say love brings pain, no! that is not love doing...remember when it was going great, you were the happiest on earth smiling for no reason, day dreaming and fantasizing about moment with your lover, that is love but the moment it become sour, love left one of you or the person probably find love somewhere else.
How do we control our heart and stop ourself from being heartbroken, first of all one of the organs we can't control in our body is the heart, so the only solution is never rely solely on someone else for your happiness, do not feel entitled for your partner to make you happy or always be around you, self love matters a lot, one of the best feeling in the world is falling in love but don't forget to love yourself too, when you love and also take care of yourself, it makes them more attracted to you, don't be desperate, give your partner time alone too so it won't make him/her tired of you easily...
People change but some of the memories you shared with them last forever, it breaks the heart that someone that used to mean so much to you and who used to care for you alot suddenly changed and doesn't want to have things to do with you anymore, it takes some people years to heal and some were lucky to be able to move on in months but it doesn't change the fact that it hurt to lose someone who means the world to you...
Regardless, you will be fine no matter how long it takes! You will heal.....
