Finally someone like me. Yes forgiving is super hard especially for people who don’t hold on to small or petty things.
At times I can be really petty and I like how I am. Now, when you do something to me that I don’t like it’s really easy for me to tell you that I don’t like it. But when am really hurt I don’t forgive. We are humans and it’s normal in my opinion. Sometimes all we need is time to accept a situation and for me I wouldn’t allow myself to be forced into forgiving someone if I don’t want to🤣