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Today I will be writing on;
Are you a fan of arguments? Do you go on with it once you find yourself in that situation or you prefer to step away to avoid things going far. What are you experiences with arguments and what have you learnt from those experiences? Do you think being in an argument with others is healthy? Let’s get interactive.
Normally, arguments as we all know is a natural thing that occurs in the life of all humans, there is nobody here that hasn't been involved in any form of arguments, we all have and the results was either positive or negative. Weather you enjoyed it or not.... It has been placed there to help shape human relationships.
I have had several encounters on different aspects of my relationships with people and it has shaped my life in do many ways... It has helped me in my own personal life.
Reflecting on my own personal experience of arguments, u have discovered that arguments serve in different dimensions and many purposes.... Looking at the brighter side of it, it is a pathway for expressing and showing our emotions and how our reaction is towards that stuff which led to argument....
Being open to arguments gives room for stronger connection and open discussion because the person has expressed everything and is open to discussions no matter how it will end.
Moreover, I am fully aware that arguments which doesn't ends well has really destroyed many relationships especially my relationship isn't exempted... I have been in several negative arguments which only one party understands how to handle the situation while the other party doesn't.... It led to total distruction and I don't plan on ending any of my relationship with a negative arguments anymore... because I have learnt a lot of lessons, and I will be sharing with us some of the lessons I have learnt in the process of this.
When arguing, know when to walk aware
Sometimes the arguments we are engaging in doesn't yield fruits, it is unproductive, instead of solving the issues it is even escalating and bringing in more problem, walk away because the arguments will turn into hatred.... saying from experience.
When arguing, learn to stay calm
In the course of arguing with someone, learn to stay calm because in the process of arguing s lot of thoughts will be flowing through your mind and you will want to be hard on your self, stay calm and quiet to avoid double arguments.
When arguing, listen to each other
Pay attention to every details because humans are very funny, they can use words against you ooo... Listening is the most essential thing to do in the act of arguing... It helps the parties to understand each other's perspective
When arguing, don't say every words in your mind or head
You know when arguing... Things will be entering our head and mind... Know how to comport and control oneself. Some words in the course of arguing can hurt the other person... Learn to control your emotions when arguing, it helps a lot.
Learn to keep healthy arguments
Maintain healthy arguments when arguing, it lessens the arguments. Don't use abusive words when arguing, words really hurt humans.
In all the arguments, reflect and learn
Don't just enjoy the act of arguing and causing problems.... Reflect on it, learn from each other... Learn to admit you were wrong. Okay.... I discovered this was the area I was wrong, here and here. Learn your lessons...
The best way to resolve arguments is when the two parties and positive, good communication skills and dialogue sessions
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