Each person on this planet is linked to a certain group or family nucleus, and therefore, in this nucleus each one of us will have our role to play, but, there will always be people more committed than others and with greater dedication in this nucleus, in many occasions it is not because that person wants to, but, without realizing it, he/she is generating all the necessary foundations to become the fundamental pillar of his/her own family nucleus as well as the one left behind with his/her parents and siblings.
Generally, to be able to assimilate such responsibility at the first moment is difficult, however, as time goes by we get used to it and assume in the best way the responsibility acquired or to be acquired, at the beginning we may think that we over-saturate ourselves more than other family members because we have the same responsibilities in our home as parents, I think that in this case it is very important to communicate first with our partner and children and make them understand that sometimes it is circumstantial certain activities that demand our commitment to a member of our maternal and paternal family such as our siblings and parents.
I also think that we should be very coherent and communicative with the rest of the maternal and paternal family and get everyone to work in one direction, without any kind of pettiness or resentment, because as the lyrics of a beautiful song by Ruben Blades say, family is family, so our burden or responsibility will be much smaller and more bearable for everyone.
Sometimes we lose without realizing that love of siblings and sometimes unfortunately of good children, we think that when we form our own family each one of us must solve our own difficulties, which I think is a mistake because it will always be much better to work as a family team and help each other, a feature that will always keep us united and with our love intact towards our parents.
I wanted to share this small reflection of personal life because at some point we need to remember that in any aspect of our lives in the union will always be the strength and in the family aspect even more, and if at some point in our lives we become the cornerstone of our families both our children and wife and our brothers and parents, we must do it and know how to guide the whole group in the best possible way and make all efforts converge on a single focal point.
Until another opportunity, my dear and esteemed readers, hoping to count on your valuable contributions and to consolidate the issue raised.
