Happiness hold a great place in our heart to whatsoever we want to achieve, nothing done in bad mood that would yield the actual expected results, our mind is a great weapon, "why do I tend to say this countable times" is because, before we get on a certain tasks, we must first of all accept that, this is what we want to do, acceptance is number one before any other thing must follow.
Happiness boost not only our health but it also has a lot to do with our wisdom, then it is through this wisdom that is used to harness what is to come out of us, to get a particular tasks need time and money, but before we can even talked about the money or time aspects, we must first of all, have it on our mind that we want to do this thing.
I have been making research about how can an individual be totally happy all the time, but the response I keep getting was only relating to the point that, to be happy, you need to be free and easy going, "don't take anything too serious" because when once a particular thing become more important to you than any other thing and you are not able to get it, on the expected time, that thing would eventually become a problem to you.
But whereas, when you go for it and you see that, the time required to handle it, would take you longer and which is what you do not have, then you make the availability available all you need, believe me, that is when you would have peace of mind and this internal peace is what we called happiness.
A plan who take longer to achieve really make one to be thinking on whose method to use, that is why great thinkers came up with many types of plans and advise planners to get the ones, only suitable to their needs and to avoid doing the one, they would not be able to get it, to their valuable time.
Our want and needs shapes our minds, to an extent that we ourselves, have to be careful on what we desires on a daily basis, why do I say that, "we need to be careful" it is no doubt, we have wants and needs, we need something everyday, because our needs arises on a daily basis, but we can do ourselves a favor by knowing the things we want so as not to get us to this inferior feelings of taking our happiness away.
When our minds is consume by this feelings of inferiority, happiness is a no go area for such person and at some point, the world would not be reasonable and good to such soul, but how can we avoid all this, to avoid this inferiority, one need to shape itself to the available demands.
I once heard a story, whereby a man sold his house and bet a gamble, just because he want a better house, he didn't love his house and he thought of how to buy a new one, then he went and sell it then he use the money to bet a gamble, so that when he win his bet, he would buy himself a better house, but the thing here was that, he has never for once bet a game, so he did it the wrong way, due to not having too much experience on the gamble, he loose his money and he loose his house, he was left with no place to called home and began to live in the street.
It happens that, the man was not contented with what he has and that makes him not to be happy, he allowed the feelings to eat all over of him then he end up loosing his money in gamble, I know taking risk at times can be our great way of success but, they are some risks that are not worth taking, if we are to take a deeper look at the approach of risks, it is greatly postulated that, risks are of two types, the one we called favourable risks and the one we called unfavourable risks, the man who sold his house and bet a gamble, took the unfavorable risk.
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