Cheating - The venom that whisks relationship to death. Part 2

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What if your partner keeps cheating, even after you had forgiven him/her? How long will you keep forgiving?

Well, I won't deny the fact that you have to fight for your partner, you have to try to keep your partner if you truly love them. But in a case where your partner constantly disrespects you by cheating on you, then it may require more efforts to keep them.

Your relationship is your duty, so the way you decide to handle your cheating partner is solely on you but then I will always say, that maybe you should press a little more buttons to get your partner back.

Don't misunderstand me, because I said you should press a little more buttons doesn't mean you should let your partner take you for granted or even go as far as fighting the third party. That will be a very serious mistake.

Often partners make the mistake of turning rivals with their partners new side bodies, but really it's not necessary, you should never see it as a competition because doing that will belittle you.

Be the loving and faithful partner you have been, complain twice or thrice about his/her unfaithfulness, if nothing changes pull a less affair attitude. Let your partner wonder why you are no longer complaining, that attitude alone will put thoughts in the head of your cheating partner.

If after a while he/she capitalizes on your less affair attitude, then even when it hurts pull yourself away gradually, tell him/her you are no longer interested, walk out of the relationship.

Give yourself time, what's yours will always come back, and it's your decision to take them back or not.But if he/she doesn't come back, then prepare yourself to move on, trust yourself enough to know that he/she was not meant to stay.

I know the ladies always feel they should not rely on one man, to avoid disappointments of being left at the last minute, more like they don't want to be found wanting when they are ready for marriage. They are like if one is not ready, the other will be. Truth be told all of these are not necessary, stay true to one man, give in your all, pray and hope it survives.

Thanks for reading!!

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