Hello Fellow Hive Lovers..
How often do you spend time together with your family? How often do you take advantage of your short moments together with them? These questions arise considering because that busyness has become a ghost for togetherness currently. Busyness becomes the justification for the inability of some of us to be closer to the family that we love.
Nowadays, busyness often makes people rarely take advantage of the time with their family. Lack of quality time in the family can lead to strained relationships between father, mother, and children and between children and extended families, and sometimes even husbands and wives begin to find incompatibility due to lack of togetherness. In fact, the cause of the decline in the moral quality of the current generation is also due to the failure of the family to function properly.
In fact, we know that family is who will always come and accept you all the time, no matter how bad your current situation is. Family is a source of inspiration and happiness in life. We have believed that for a long time. But sometimes this comes as just theory, but in practice we underestimate it. Just always try to make time each day to communicate and get together with your family. Enjoying time with your family has many positive impacts, especially on children's growth and development.
Going out anywhere together, taking a walk or just spending time walking in the afternoon and enjoying the scenery together are a series of positive activities and can be done at any time. And here, I would like to convey some of the benefits of this activity and what I am conveying at this time focuses on children and parents only, not between husband and wife, or between us and our relatives and extended family. Because we can start education from now on from the smallest environment but become the main basis, between father, mother, and child.
First, do activities together, whether planned or not, because this will create a strong relationship between children and parents.
In some of the readings which I have found, the families that often do activities together will have strong emotional ties and can adapt well to the children, they are more stronger against life's trials, and they have a high spirit of togetherness. Doing hobbies together, exercising, watching movies, and reading books are examples of activities that can create a harmonious family. A positive relationship between parents and children will provide a basis for their learning. Whatever things they get from a few of activities will remember and become provisions for the life to come for them;
Second, togetherness in any activity will build good communication between family members.
Yups, togetherness in the family make children and adolescents feel uncomfortable with their parents. By doing some activities together, the communication between parent and children will be better. Through interaction with parents, children will be skilled at engaging with others and more adaptative if they enter a different environment. our children will learn how to manage their emotions and how to have behavior and build healthy relationships with adults and peers. It will also help them learn how to adjust to a new situation and resolve conflicts.
Third, Increase self-confidence higher in children.
We agree that children who often do activities with their parents will make them feel valued and understand how to develop a more positive and confident outlook. This condition will certainly have a good impact on their performance at school and in most situations. This does not need to be proven scientifically because it has been like this since long ago. A communicative family will bring the children more confidence.
It must be admitted that effective communication is essential to building healthy and lasting relationships for our children. Children may feel inadequate and feel insecure about their bodies or be bullied and in an ignorant environment and are just a formality. This is important to build trust and let children tell parents why they feel unsure of themselves so that parents can work together to find solutions.
Fourth, doing joint activities also fosters positive behavior.
Technology has directly brought new methods for parents to spend time with their children and how to educate them. It is very sad if then when children think that technology can answer all their problems. Children indirectly assume that they don't need parents, don't need other people in their life. But the need will still come because it exists humanly, they don't even have a solution to deal with it, Of course, the most advanced technology cannot replace the role of these parents;
Children who spend more time with their parents are less likely to associate with negative habits. Spending time together also lowers the risk of family conflicts, which usually harm children. Children only absorb information from the surrounding environment and will turn to parents as the main source of information about which behavior is acceptable and which behavior is not acceptable. Make sure parents show children how someone should behave, not just telling them what to do. If children see their parents are not afraid to express themselves, then they will try to be kind to others and very open.
Fifth, often doing activities together will create happy memories.
The time you have spent with your family will create happy moments that will be remembered. Children who grow up in happy families tend to be able to create the same loving environment for future children. Of course, this kind of cycle occurs because of the good memories from their parents as well and they certainly want to create good memories for their children too.
By Seeing the importance of spending time with family, parents need to plan some activities they can do with their children at home. Many activities can be done together without having to pay a lot of money, the most important thing is the moment of togetherness. Some of the joint activities are sports, eating, playing, gardening, doing housework, fishing, and others.
I don't want to say if I am one hundred percent as a good parent, but there are some activities that I do regularly is bring them to enjoy nature by traveling @travelfeed @haveyoubeenhere and take pictures together in a beautiful spot, and some of the photos in my posts are proof of that. The pictures I took is in Aceh Jaya, Aceh Besar and Central Aceh Regency, Aceh Province, Indonesia
In some of the activities above, at least I have tried to bring togetherness in an image that they confidently share with their family, friends, and teachers. This is very positive and memory to make them feel better in every situation.
Then how about you? lets me know your experience when you are spending time with your family? and let's share and I can learn more from you here.
My best regard
@ch41m1e
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