Life is so insensitive if you are going to affix all your motives with it more precisely when you love a human being. In considerable aspects of life, I have impacted people and thankfully my undertakings succeeded 70%. So here is the question proposed by @galenkp
Describe a situation in which you positively influenced someone - Who was it and in what way did you influence them, how did that accept it and what was the outcome.
Motivation is a secondary necessity and we all need it in the integral period. The tale I am going to describe is based on the most unfortunate period in the life of an individual. What happens with you is for a reason but to confide this fact to someone when he/she is having a tremendous casualty is not easy.
Situation;
This year friend of mine got a breakup. But it was so severe and heartbreaking that he was going to commit suicide. Both were having a schedule of marriage. But accidentally the girl dismissed him and said we can't be together. The guy was stunned and requested that everything be favorable for us but the girl still denied it. Blocked from each platform and no communication haunted him. When I came to know about all this I was in discomfort as both were good friends of mine. I had two ways;
Curse the faults of the girl, and show her as a villain so that the guy can easily forget her in hate.
Defend the position of the girl and positively influence the person.
Positive influence;
I adopted the second option as it looked more comfortable to me. The scenario was clear yet my negative and bad words can be inaccurate as the girl was also a friend of mine so can't say terrible words about her. No, when I started my work that crying lover proclaimed that she refused to marry me when she persuaded me to do this. I answered back softly Aresh she knew that her parents wouldn't support her t, that's why she moved back. But my mom agreed and soon we were heading to the official proposal he screamed. I responded "it's bold for you as you are not a girl. She has to look for a decent future, a better place where her parents would be more comfortable for her.
But why not me?? I have done all the struggle for her and now when the time arrived she departed me alone.
As she had a better option so she sacrificed her choice. She is restricted and if she can't stand against society there is nothing wrong with this.
The argument continued and I kept positively defending her till he knew that true love is acknowledging the miseries and shortcomings of others.
I requested him to pardon her for everything and pray for her better future. And thankfully he did that as he truly loved her. This positive influence changed his life and he promised to start the new life by exonerating everyone with whom he had an attachment. I invested a lot of effort in making him comprehend that he is a good person (in reality he wasn't and the girl left him as he knew that he was a scoundrel and somehow, for someday else he is going to replace her too. That's why she chose the better option hehe)
Outcome;
Imagine if I was going to tell the whole negativity and he who was on the verge of death would be going to curse me in later life that Ayesha is responsible for this. Maybe I would be untrue who keep him perplexed by not indicating the truth but yes I have finished up my job by securing his life. At the end of the story, the girl is happily married and the guy is busy in his own life with a new motivation that this time he wouldn't indulge himself in love affairs.I have taken consent from both the individuals and Used fictional names to protect their reputations. This incident happened for a reason and for the first time I realized that words do magic but only when they are indicial and appropriate.
