A really long tale, but captivating though. Real life experiences always hits differently. It's nice you're making such a smart and bold move. There's nothing in Nigeria to come back to, we will all leave soon.
Life is as usual full of up and downs and hopefully, you'll get more comfortable in Benin, at least they're all black and no xenophobic tendencies have been reported so far.
Wishing you the best.
Please, Uber story next!