Man, I understand that things might be different as you’re older, but I think you should go out more and meet more new people.
In my city, there are a number of fun youth groups that organize discussions and fun events every month for people to socialize. It was great for me when I was having a hard time last year about that thing I talked to you about. Maybe you could find groups like that in Lagos? It’s a nice distraction, and with time, it turns into something you genuinely enjoy doing and looking forward to. Hive it a try.