wisdom to accept the things we cannot change
So many people spend (waste) time focusing/worrying about things they cannot change whilst allowing the things they can change to be ignored.
I think people do it because if they don't change the thing they can't change they have an excuse; it's unchangeable and outside of their control.
However, if they don't change the things they couod change with ownership responsibility and discipline, they see it as failure, themselves as a failure, and feel worse for it.
So, it's easier not to focus on personal change, growth, development, removing bad habits and creating good ones.
Just my thoughts based on years of being a leader in various job functions and situations.
RE: Think like a Viking: Part fifty one