My first date was kind of weird because I went on a date with a wrong person.
I was sent to the market to get food stuff for the family when I met this guy, you know how the guy always approach now.
The guy: hey, baby girl how are you
Me: (I looked at him in an ill manner) I'm good
The guy: Can I have your number.
Me: (With a rolled eyes) what for.
The guy: I just like you and I will like to be your friend...
And that is how it all started. When I got home, I told my brother about him because I was close with him and tell him almost everything about me. You know guy understand themself better.
The way I see him he is some kind of a stingy and a flirt type but with my brother I gat nothing to worry about. Everytime he called, his card always got finished before we talked for two minutes so he will be expecting me to call him back which I never did.
One day he called me to asked me out on a date but I don't feel like going. When I told my brother he asked me to honor his invitation but I should get prepared in case things get out of control.
He asked me to meet him at a particular place by 4pm that Saturday and I did not argue with him. I told my brother about the location and he told me it was a club but their was a bar there.
That was my first date so I asked for my brother on how to do when I get there and he gave me some tips and I composed myself you know, act like a big girl.
The place is not far from home but I never noticed it since I don't have business there and moreover, I hardly go out.
I don't like delay so I was there on time and I met him outside waiting for me, he paid for the bike and we entered. When we entered he asked me what I want and I requested for malt since I don't take alcohol.
And throughout this, I was keeping my brother updated because he asked me to alert him if anything happens. Although I was with the guy in body, but my mind was actually at home.
After I was served with malt he asked me what other than thing I want and I told him I want pepper soup which I know I won't eat, I was only following my brother's order to know the kind of person he was.
He hesitate before placing an order. After placing the order he started complaining about people who owe him money that have not pay him. Like what the hell is he talking about, you asked me out on a date and here you are talking about irrelevant thing.
After some minutes, the pepper soup was ready and I told them to pack it in a takeaway for me. His mood change I don't give a damn about it. He later speak up and said "I thought you were going to eat it here why packing it in a takeaway" and I told him that because it was late already, I don't stay out for long.
He started saying he never knew I was a baby, who takes baby out, you act like a child abuse and you are chicken out because it's late, it just some minutes past seven. I never reply him rather I was telling my brother what is going on through chatting and he asked me to leave the place that he his waiting for me outside.
I told the guy that I'm going and he started saying we are not done here but I did not answer him and he started following me as I go outside immediately I saw my brother and me I know he was following me I hug him immediately and said babe what are you doing here.
We started acting and my brother said " I was actually on my way to your house and I wanted to get you something". Immediately he said that I just said "thanks babe, you are such a darling. See what I got for you" Once I said that, the guy flared up, calling me names telling me that he wasted his money because you wanted to buy pepper soup for this thing. Don't call me again and I never want to see you again, he said.
Immediately he said that my brother said hello young man, nobody talk to my sister like that, you are such a fool to think that you deserve a girl like her. He pushed him and he landed on his butt.
I laughed and open the pepper soup and pour it on the ground right in front of him, and tell him to hell with him, who want a guy like him and that is how the date came to an end.
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