Marriage is not a bed full of roses…
Marriage is not compulsory for everyone and it is also not by force, it is by choice….
Marriage is an expectation of you, not a compulsion…
Marriage is life long commitment, which means it is for better and for worse, for rich and for poor, and most importantly till death do them part…
If there is one thing I have come to
understand in the last two decades of my life about marriage, it is the fact that marriage is not a child’s play and there are lots of factors to consider before one journey into the world of being married…
Over the years I have witnessed and heard a lot of happy marriages crumble after some time together and also at the same time I have also seen different marriages excel because of mutual understanding, support, trust, and communication…
As a single person who believes one day he is going to get married, settle down with a woman, and also be a father to sons and daughters, I believe marriage is a very beautiful thing, it is a stage in one’s life that can never be written off or erased from existence…
The coming together of two unified hearts legally is what we call marriage, happiness can never be in a marriage where there are no mutual feelings, such marriages are expected to break after several months…
I have seen different things in different people's marriages and sometimes I say in my mind that if this is how marriages end up, then I don’t want to get married but along the way, I have also come across beautiful couples who inspire me and convinces me that marriage is indeed a beautiful thing…
I won’t allow the bad marriages I have heard about and witnessed to affect my decision of getting married one day, I believe there is a woman for every man in this world, all you just have to do is to be careful, prayerful and committed to finding the right partner for you…
Marriage can’t always be sweet because challenges and obstacles are bound to surface in a marriage, this is where your bond and trust as a couple is being put to the test, only a strong marriage withstand these challenges…
Marriage is for better for worst, for rich and for poor and till death do them part but in this present generation, marriage is now for better for stay, for worse is for go, no one wants to stay with a poor man and that is why it better to be fully ready and financially equipped before you settle down as a married person…
In a happy marriage there is always support and understanding between couples and most importantly there is communication and trust between them, no marriage can survive if there is no trust and communication as its backbone…
I believe husband and wife are expected to be expressive of their likes and dislikes, pain and happiness, and many more feelings since they are now one…
The moment you are joined together in the presence of God and are bounded together by the word of God, every spirit of I has been destroyed, you are now expected to use WE since you and your partner are now one…
Joint decision-making is one of the most important aspects of being married, I believe there should be equality in a marriage that is expected to be prosperous…
Love alone can not sustain a marriage, there have to be some other factors involved to ensure long-lasting relationships and bonds…
Qualities like patience, commitment, communication, compassion, understanding, care, love, support, and most importantly God are factors needed to ensure a long-lasting relationship between a husband and his wife…
Why do you think wedding vows are taken upon every marriage, it is because they want you to know what you going into, and if you know you are not ready, you can put an end to it at that moment before making a choice you will end up regretting all your life…
I have a lot of role models when it comes to happy homes and marriages and that is why I never seize to ask questions from them when the need arises, at this young age, I have attended marriage counseling where I was made to understand a lot of things about marriages and since then I have made up my mind that marriage is indeed beautiful and worth all the troubles when you have blessed the right partner…
The right partner is someone who sees you for who you really are, who accepts you with all your flaws and errors and who promises to share every bit of your feelings and emotions, be it happiness or sadness…
In summary, I believe marriage is wonderful and beautiful with the right partner but the moment you marry the wrong person, one is doomed and that is the beginning of failure, you have to be thoroughly prepared before you get married since it is a life long commitment…
In conclusion, I think I am going to stop here for now on my marriage views with the hope of learning from my fellow writers who have beautiful stories to share regarding how beautiful their marriage is…
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