Accusing others without any proper evidence is not a good habit but as human most of us has the bad habit. We used to blame others whom we suspect doesn't matter if we have proper evidence behind it or if we try to prove that whatever we are thinking is right.
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I have seen many people doing it and they made mistakes several times but they learned nothing and they are repeating their mistakes. I think they get a different kind of satisfaction by accusing others. But it creates a huge impact on the mind of the accused person if they didn't make the wrong for what they get accused of. In fact, a wrong accusation can force a simple human to turn into a criminal-minded human.
I used to be a polite and well-mannered human having a cool mentality. I have a good image in front of everyone. If anyone says I made any wrong thing, people will think several times before accusing me. Maybe everyone loves me a lot or my characteristics help me avoid such situations. It was really hard for me to find the incident who accused me wrongly. A friend's of friend was accused wrongly once.
I have very few friends and all of them are very close to me. Rakib is one of them. I became friends with him when I was in class 9. After completing class 10 we departed for 2 years. At that time communication between us was almost lost.
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When I was admitted to university he called me that time after 2 years. That time he was betrayed by a girl and he was mentally unstable. So he got me to share the incident that occurred with him thinking that he would feel better. The communication between us was re-established again for that reason.
I met with him several times and every time he came with another close friend name Johir. As well as I could understand that Johir was very close to my friend and he became a friend when I wasn't connected with him.
After a certain time, I was able to realize that Johir is such a kind of person who had several girlfriends and he was not a royal person. Besides he used to do many dirty and illegal things. I had nothing with him because my friend think he was ok and he wouldn't do any harm.
My friend started to discuss almost every little thing with me and he wanted my suggestion at almost every step. And I always try to give him the best suggestion from my site thinking about what is good for him.
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I suggest every time to do good things and not to make mistakes as much as I can. During the time Johir started to reveal his true face because my suggestion somehow restricted my friend to do any bad or evil work. For some reason, a conflict occurred between the two of them. It occurred because of their personal reason. I had nothing to do with their conflict.
That day Johir called me and told me that Rakib was not a good person to be a friend of anyone and suggest me not keep contact with Rokib. So I asked for the reason for what actually happened. After hearing the incident I defended Johir with logic and I suggest to him not to give me suggestions on what to do or what not to do because I was capable enough to understand who was good and who was bad.
After hearing those words he accused me that I am the one who was creating distance between my friend and him. He threatened me also saying that he will hurt me I totally ignored him because he was never a subject to think about in my mind and I didn't care about his word.
He was the only person who accused me. I don't know if my suggestion created distance between my friend and him but If it's yes then I don't hesitate for it because I have done a good thing for my friend.
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