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Good afternoon and Happy new month to you. January 2023 has gone already; we are now in February. Year 2023 is going gradually and before we know it, we will be in the month of match. This is the reason whatever your plan is this year, you should start planning how to initiate it right now.
I was aware of this topic âdĂ©jĂ vuâ but did not understand the meaning; I went to search for the meaning online; I was never contented with the concept I got. That was the reason I read through the post, that was when I understood the meaning of dĂ©jĂ vu.
In December 2022, I came back from work, I was really tired and hungry. Since I was living alone; I needed to cook food for myself.
I came to the conclusion to cook rice, I put rice on the gas; while the rice was on fire, I slept off due to tiredness.
Hmmm! I did not use the type of gas that my family was using because I didn't have money to afford it. The moment the food is done, the gas would go off by itself. My gas was not like that. My gas is not automatic, it was manual, which simply meant that I had to switch off when the food is done.
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While I was cooking the food, I slept off because of tiredness and stress in my work. One of my good Neighbour which always checking on me discovered that something was smelling like burnt food.
She called my name three times, âChris!!!â When there was no response from me, she came to my apartment, and discovered that my kitchen was filled with smoke. She quickly turned off the gas, and ran out of my kitchen.
She immediately woke me up; and I thanked her because the whole house would have been burnt if not because of her.
That is the reason it is good to build a good relationshipđŹ with your Neighbours and friends so that when there are challenges, they may render help. If I was someone without a good relationship with her, she wouldnât have come into my apartment; she would have left me alone.
The rice had turned black; there was nothing to eat that night; because of her generosity toward me, she gave me food to eatđČ.
The scenario made me remember when I was in a higher institution, when the same thing happened to me. It was my best friend living adjacent to my room that came inside my room and switched off the gasđ€.
I came back from the lecture tired and exhausted; I put rice on the gas and dozed off. He was the one that later gave me a portion of the food he cooked.
DEJA VU experience is something we donât just realize that it would happen to us again. If I knew that I would have the same experience I had in a higher institution at that time, I would not have entered the kitchen: I would have gone to my friendâs house to rest instead of coming to my house to avoid it.
There are people that have the ability to know what is about to happen now has happened before. Such people may find solutions to prevent it from happening; but, people like that are very rear.
It is the experience that after it happened, that is when one would know that he had such experience before.
As we have bad DEJA VU, we also good DEJA VU. Someone who had good Deja Vu will be happy to experience such a thing all the time.
It is unforeseen event in our lives, but as we know that life is full of ups and downs; we need to keep going on without thinking of them if the Deja Vu is bad; if it is Deja VU that keep us happy and smiling, we need to keep remembering them so that we can live joyfully and happily.
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LESSON LEARNED FROM DEJA VU EXPERINCE
Since we all experienced Deja Vu in life, and the majority of us did not know. We need to recognize the following:
Donât focus on your mistake: just like the way I made that terrible mistake twice that would have caused damage to me and people we are living in the same house. Donât ever focus on that mistake you have made but rather find a solution to itđ.
Be conscious: Right now, I donât have automatic gas which will switch off when the food is done whether I monitor it or not. I am always very conscious whenever I am cooking something in the kitchen, and I set my time to always alert me every five minutes that something is on fire. It has helped me in different ways such as preventing my food from burning. I burned food almost 4-5 times in a week because whenever I put something on fire, I always find something to do online or offline. I donât stay in the kitchen while cooking.
I stand up for success, and success is not achieved by merely making mouth, No room for laziness, no room for idleness.
Thank you for reading my post.