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I will be answering the edition 1 of the week 15 prompt tagged "YOUR GREATEST FEAR".
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We are humans and sometimes we dread.
Fear is not terrible but letting the fear overtake your thoughts that's where the trouble lies. The mind is like an express route which good and bad ideas travel through but what we let gain hold of us truly counts a lot.
This is one of my biggest worries since marriage is a permanent thing. The minute you enter, it is hard to get out.
Hearing how marriages fail these days and witnessing your parents have misunderstanding is enough dread.
I don't want to have a failing marriage or place my children in a circumstance of a broken marriage.
I pray to God daily and alter my thinking that no matter how marriages collapse, my marriage would not fail.
I will have a happy family.
Another huge anxiety I have is the fear of failure.
When I say fail, I mean not being financially sufficient to support myself, my family, and my future family.
When I get married, I don't simply want to be a wife but able to support my spouse.
There's nothing wonderful like being an independent woman and not constantly coming to my parents for aid.
Overcoming these phobias may not be as straightforward as indicated. But I beg God daily not to let me marry the wrong guy.
Being impoverished is a major fear too, and conquering it simply takes my dedication, hard effort, and perseverance.
It takes a strong lady to be able to face failure or hardship. It may not be simple tho, but am begging God to help me fulfill my aspirations and make me successful in all aspects of my life.