Nowadays, relationships are so complicated and many people date for selfish reasons, gone are the days when people fell in love for no ulterior motives but purely based on how they feel.
The rate of infidelity and indecency is so high and it really surprises me how corrupt and bad people's minds can be
Bad things are now seen as common things.
We blame the ladies for cheating on their spouse/husband/boyfriend/fiance or whatever the other may be to them but what about the men/guys disturbing them before they eventually succumb to the indecent act?
you will hear words like:
he has not put rings on your finger
It does not matter
I won't let it affect the relationship you have with your husband
These are statements coming from men trying their luck and shooting their shot at ladies who are in a relationship with another man.
I do not think a responsible man should be saying something like this, once you figure out a lady is in a relationship, the right thing to do is respect yourself and let her be, because you also won't like it if another man is doing the same to your woman.
Here in my country, a lot of married women cheat on their husbands for materialistic things, and a lot of married men also cheat for sex, I wonder what happened to the vows they took on their wedding day.
Some people are taking care of other people's children without knowing, this is why DNA test is a must, unfortunately, not everyone can afford it, I am sure if DNA tests become free, many homes will be scattered due to the truth that will be discovered.
Regardless people tend to ignore the obvious signs that indicate their partner is cheating on them and here I am to drop some tips.
Being over-possessive with their phones: The phone holds a lot of information, Once your partner becomes over-possessive with his/her phone, you can't borrow their phone to make calls or do something without them being on your head to wait and collect the phone from you, you don't have access to their phone because they put in different passwords and pattern to block you out, it is the sign you need to know the person is cheating on you, don't take that excuse of privacy is needed.
Deleted chats: Some partners do not block your access to their phones but they delete chats, there is this person who is always on top of their chat list but whenever you check there is no message to read because all has been cleared, you do not need a soothsayer to figure out that he or she does not want you to see what they talked about, this also apply to people using disappearing messages.
Guilt trip: This is common with the female gender, they know how to guilt trip you into begging when you are not at fault when it gets to an extent that whenever you ask her about her activities and places she went to and rather than give you a straight answer, she plans to guilt trip you with her words like, you don't trust her anymore blah blah, that is the sign you need she is not pure, a partner that loves you will always want you to know her whereabouts and even tell you things you didn't ask her.
There are many other signs but I will stop here, the most important thing to know is to trust your instinct, once your mind starts telling you something is not right, do not ignore it!
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