The word Sorry was created for a big purpose, it has been saving many people either from who they offend or who they mistakenly hurt... The word sorry melt heart and let people let go of their grudges towards one another.....
There are people who abuse this word though, they intentionally do bad hoping to say sorry and such people kinda make the word meaningless when they use it but it all depends on who they are....
Like my partner is very stubborn and purposely do things and end up with saying i am sorry, it got to an extent that her i am sorry started to sound like poem to my ear, why do this things when you are eventually going to apologize? that doesn't stop her from repeating the same offence but still as long as she keeps saying i am sorry all i can do is forgive her...
There are others that intentionally hurt others and apologize and what i know how to do best is avoid such kind of people after i accepted their apology, once is a mistake but when it becomes continuously, it is time to avoid them before they do something that their apology won't be able to solve...
Meanwhile there are also people who doesn't like to say sorry, they would prefer making you happy in another way than telling you sorry... I fall in this category of people, the reason why i don't like to say it is because i don't feel i am wrong but sometimes by the time i realized i am actually at fault, the word sorry would be too heavy to say, so what i just do is find a means to make the person happy and i will use that as my way of apologizing.....
I learnt that habit of not saying sorry when i became a teacher, my first time of flogging my pupils, i felt heart broken when i see some of them crying and i was almost pushed to beg them but then i flogged them for an offence and apologizing is not ideal, so i shrugged off the idea and i was surprised after 30 mins that the pupils crying have started laughing and smiling at me again...
That is one thing about children, they hold no grudges and after that experience, i no longer get worried for flogging them for an offence knowing they won't take it to heart, i don't really flog all the time though, only for good reason....
If i should say sorry to someone, it must have mean i have hurt the person in a painful way unconsciously to me, i don't have a problem apologizing if i feel that i am really at fault and i try my possible best not to wrong anyone... I am a peacemaker who doesn't like trouble but i am trouble itself if i am pushed to the wall....
I think people should always man up and apologize when they are at fault though, apologizing promote peace in the society and without it, many would be all out on taking revenge on those who hurt them and that would make the world really chaotic...
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