Marriage and Parenthood in the Modern Era: Challenges and Choices

Nowadays many people are not getting married till a very old age and this trend is increasing a lot. I will also turn 30 in a few years but I have not thought anything about marriage yet and am always alone. No, there is no dearth of such people around me. Many people are of this age and still go about their work and things. Or it is good in a way, but if you want to get married then. I agree that you should do it on time because many people say that the more you delay, the more problems you will have to face with increasing age. Nowadays even married people do not have more than one child, some people have two, one boy and one girl and some people are satisfied with only one and they are not able to support more than this. Most people say this because nowadays education and other things are important. And the cost of other things is increasing so much that people do not want to have more children. I think its impact on the population will be visible in the coming few years.

Although India is the number one country in the world in terms of population and this population is also increasing very fast because at present there is no policy on child birth here, but I think it is necessary to implement some policies here because the more the population. It will increase so much that you may have to face problems. Because this is a very serious matter if the population is more then the consumption of things will also be more and in such a situation, there is a possibility of unemployment and shortage of many other things and that is also happening. Many families are satisfied with just one child, but some families believe in having children forever. Everyone has their own opinion. I am not judging anyone, nor will I advise anyone. People use their wisdom. They do things according to this and if they are making such a big decision then they must be wise because the decision to have a child is not small, some people think about it for many years and then take the decision. But some people just give birth to children without even thinking about their life and then they are not able to give them a good education or a good lifestyle. I don't think it would be wise to do so. What do you think?

If people keep having such children without thinking, then it will have a huge impact on the economy in the coming years and there is a very serious problem here and people must think and reflect about it. I don't know what people would think after knowing this, the government also makes a lot of taglines and efforts to which it can encourage people to have fewer children, but still, people are people, they are the masters of their own will. I believe that those who will not believe until some rule comes are the same. Here if there is a famous tagline like Hum Do Hamare Do and Chhota Parivar Sukhi Parivar (we are two our two and small families happy family) etc. there are many taglines etc. Some people take it seriously but some people do not pay attention to anything. Yes, some people can try to have more children but here I believe that those who cannot afford it should not do it because inflation is increasing very fast. And many things are changing around us, if you cannot take responsibility for children then who you are, you do not even have the right to bring them into this world, I believe.

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The government is also doing a lot, they distribute free contraceptive pills (not that much now I guess ) and condoms in government hospitals, but I don't know why people run away from such things and they do not follow these things, but I believe that if the government takes some decision. If they want to take it then they should take it to control the population and it is also very important. China had implemented a one-child policy but it proved to be a failure. Maybe last year I had seen a documentary of it, the link of which I am sharing here.

China's Falling Birth Rate: Can It Sustain The Rise To Superpower? | Insight | Full Episode

If you also want to see it then you can see it from here. In the One Child Policy, people give more priority to boys and due to this, they had to face a lot of problems outside and perhaps the government had understood this. The government keeps running some scheme or the other, but unless people themselves take intelligent steps, nothing is going to happen. Ultimately, it is the public's decision as to what they want to do.

No, we believe that if the government brings such a scheme which sets the conditions for having a maximum of two children, then I think it will have a huge impact, even if you do not see it now, it will be seen in the coming years and by doing this I believe that there will be many abortions and many children will be murdered and that too in a cruel manner because there is no such thing, feticide has been going on for years, yes it is a crime under the law but still people do it. Even if this does not happen in government hospitals, how come this keeps happening in private clinics, they are only concerned with money. See, anything has two sites. Now only when it is implemented, we can know what will happen or not. Right now we can only tell the possibilities that it can happen or it can't happen until the thing is implemented. We cannot say anything properly until it is implemented.

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