Many people have a dark secret that change their life. The way we see this world and people around us can also change because of few incidents of life.
It really is difficult to get over these incidents and live again the way we use to live before.
Personally i think every problem that is there in this world has a solution as well.
we don't need to tell ourself that something can be done or not.
But there are times when we can't fight these incidents , it is so much effective in our life that i have seen people becoming mad because of those incidents.
There was one man who became mad when his love of life died. he was not able to accept this and move on in life and became mad.
So i would conclude that irrespective of whether we can fight our past consisting dark secrets , incidents , etc or not we should try our best to fight them.
Thank you