This post consists vital contents that every man on his way to success shouldn’t miss out. It contains the importance attached to a woman in a Man’s life, and how they can be a determinant of success as they have the capability to make or mar a man.

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Genesis 2:18

From the creation of the first man on earth (Adam), God knew how important it is for him not to be alone, He knew that for man to achieve greater things in life, he needs an help meet. This is why he created woman who was the bone of his bone and the flesh of his flesh.

Note If it wasn’t good for a man to be alone, this means that it is good for him to be with a woman.

But sometimes it gets wondering how something/someone very good can also be very dangerous and can destroy a man so easily. Someone said that when a woman was created, the key to a man’s greatness and doom was given to her.

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Record has shown how great men even from the Bible has fallen through a woman/women, starting from Adam, the first man to be created in the Bible who was persuaded to eat the forbidden fruit. Samson was said to be the strongest man in the Bible, yet he fell because of Delilah, the Philistine woman whom the Lord has warned him against.

In the world today, great men has fallen, and precious homes has broken due to the presence of a woman. Likewise, successful men as emerged from dust with the help of a woman. beside every great man, there is a strong woman, she might be his mother, wife, or even his daughter who is willing to help and believe in his dreams both physically and in prayers.

Taking Barack Obama who happened to be the first and only black president of America as an example, he had the full support of his wife Michelle Obama, to the extent that she left her job to support his dreams of becoming the president.

Women has a two way nature, this means they have the capacity to create or destroy. Man should be at alert while choosing his better half, and once he has a strong woman, he should keep away from the lost of womanizing. The elders in my tribe would say that if a wall does not crack and open up, a lizard would not enter it meaning that, if a man does not create space for problems in his life, there is no way he would encounter one.

The mistake most men make is, thinking that women are weak vessels, and that being a man is strong enough to gather as much women as possible, little do they know that as weak as women seem to be is as powerful and dangerous as they are.


Thank you for reading through, I hope I have been about to nail my points. Adding more points through your comments and upvotes would be very much appreciate.

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