True words 💯
This need for validation is in everyone consciously or unconsciously, even when we try to fight it. Although it is quite dominant in some people and dormant in some.
However I feel something still creates a great chasm.
The limit to how people love us is purely relativistic and subjective. By this I mean, what you may consider as your limit, for me, I may feel it is just you being dishonest, and sometimes when the limit surpases our expectations it may be interpreted as "overdoing" or "pretence".
Human beings are quite complicated shaa... and you know this can lead to a huge misunderstanding.