Hello to all dear and appreciated Hivers, after reading the phrase of the week, inevitably, despite the fatigue, I had to sit in front of the computer to write my entry, because precisely today when I leave work I spend exactly what the phrase says , but literally.
Les cuento: Al salir del trabajo, mi esposo paso por mi para irnos juntos a casa, pero tomamos un camino diferente al habitual, mientras caminábamos, un perro muy grande se dirigió hacia nosotros ladrando con mucha energía, por decirlo de una manera amable, mi esposo se molestó un poco y pretendía buscar algo con que amenazar al perro para que se alejara, pero mi reacción fue totalmente contraria, le dije a mi esposo: "sigue caminando e ignora al perro, su naturaleza es ladrar, él solo hace lo que sabe hacer", así que lo ignoramos y seguimos caminando, el perro continuó ladrando pero mientras más lejos íbamos ya no le podíamos escuchar.
Lo importante de todo este cuento es que no hubo necesidad de alimentar la ira del perro y mucho menos de lastimarlo o de que nos pudiera morder.
I tell you: When leaving work, my husband stopped by me to go home together, but we took a different path than usual, while we were walking, a very large dog came towards us barking with great energy, to put it in a friendly way, my husband got a little upset and tried to find something to threaten the dog to get away, but my reaction was totally opposite, I said to my husband: "keep walking and ignore the dog, his nature is to bark, he just does what what he knows how to do ", so we ignored him and continued walking, the dog continued barking but the further we went we could no longer hear him. The important thing about this whole story is that there was no need to feed the anger of the dog, much less hurt it or that it could bite us.
Así como existen esas personas que se dedican a ser motivadores o coach, como se les dice actualmente, de la misma manera existen los desmotivadores profesionales, son los expertos en mostrarte todo lo negativo, no trabajan con los PRO, solo te hacen ver los CONTRAS de cada situación o actividad que decidas emprender.
I believe that in our life, we have all come across that dog that barks at us, they are those people who by nature are dedicated to criticizing and spreading negative energy everywhere.
Just as there are those people who dedicate themselves to being motivators or coaches, as they are currently called, in the same way there are professional demotivators , they are experts in showing you everything negative, they do not work with the PRO , they only make you see the CONS of each situation or activity that you decide to undertake.
Pero saben que? lo que realmente me hizo reflexionar, fue el ponerme en el lugar del perro; entendí que el perro ladra cuando se siente amenazado y ladrar es su medio de defensa.
Tal vez ese tipo de personas se sienten amenazados y si nosotros nos dedicamos a lanzarles piedras lo que hacemos es alimentar ese sentimiento además de que perdemos tiempo y tardamos más en llegar a nuestro destino. Se me ocurrió, que quizá le podemos mostrar un poquito de cariño al perro y tal vez la historia sea un poco diferente.
But you know what? What really made me reflect was putting myself in the dog's place; I understood that the dog barks when it feels threatened and barking is its means of defense. Perhaps these types of people feel threatened and if we dedicate ourselves to throwing stones at them, what we do is feed that feeling, in addition to losing time and taking longer to reach our destination. It occurred to me that maybe we can show the dog a little love and maybe the story is a little different.
Por otro lado, me detuve a pensar: ¿Cuántas veces le habré yo ladrado a alguien? esta es una pregunta que trataré de responder cuando este reunida con mi almohada, por ahora les invito a participar en esta excelente iniciativa de mi amiga @tripode quien siempre nos impulsa a recargar nuestras energías con el Energy Refill Contest
On the other hand, I stopped to think: How many times have I barked at someone? This is a question that I will try to answer when I am reunited with my pillow, for now I invite you to participate in this excellent initiative of my friend @tripode who always encourages us to recharge our energies with the Energy Refill Contest
