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Why do partners resort to cheating?
Is the any reason to cheat? One question that bothers me alot, this issue is like a venom, once it sets into a relationship it gradually sucks the life out of it. Except for a timely intervention.
Partners cheat on each other for different reasons, but the issue is, is the a good enough reason to cheat? We have different answers for this question, I won't get to judge your answers neither will I answer the question. But then, partners should endeavor not to cheat.
My concern is that, cheating is a serious level of disrespect to your partner. If you claim to be in love with he/she then, you will consider their feelings before cheating, you will as much as think of the side effects cheating will have on your relationship.
Cheating, if found out brings about so much distrust, low self-esteem, and disrespect. It could result to relationship grief, in the sense that a once happy relationship will turn to a sad relationship. But then how you choose to handle a cheating partner is the greater problem.
I believe that score is left for you as an individual to settle. To me whatever the issue is, cheating should not be a reason why you throw away all you both have built. I feel cheating just like every other thing should be handled cautiously.
When you realize your partner is cheating on you, rather now walk out of the relationship try to find out his/her reasons. Is the something you are not doing?, Something driving them away? Something the third party is doing, you can't?
Talk to your partner, find out his/her reasons behind the dirty act, if he/she is sorry and you see that regret in them and they ask for another chance, I believe that if you put yourselves in their shoes, you will have reasons to forgive and move on.
What if your partner keeps cheating, even after you had forgiven him/her?
Thanks for reading!