Reasons why some people remain lonly


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As humans, we all have different ways of relating with one another because the way we see things quite differently, based on belief, background, understanding and other factors.


Why are there so many lonely people,
I believe someone people are lonely because they have refused to open their hearts and mind to other people based on what they have been through.

Experience is indeed the best teacher and it will be foolish to allow what happened in the past to happen again but for how long do we have to be lonely just because we are, our hearts from more hurts?

I understand the fact that a lot of people have been betrayed for trusting and opening up to people but there are extents to which we can have a good relationship with people without getting hurt. Because I got involved in a car crash doesn't mean I wouldn't use a car again it only means I need to be more careful with the way o drive next time and this same principle can be applied to the broken relationship we have with people.

After being betrayed and instead of locking up our hearts, we just have to be more careful and limit the access people have to the deepest part of our hearts.

Some humans don't know how to be open-minded to another person, and having all kinds of emotions to themselves alone makes them lonely. Creating a connection can be difficult but it is something we just have to do.

I believe living alone is not something humans are designed to do and no matter how bad we can be at creating connections, it mustn't be as bad as not having just one person to connect with. It is easier with family and I wonder why some humans still find it difficult to connect.


There was a girl I used to know, her name is Ola. She has a close friend that she shares her secret with, she had a boyfriend that she loves so much but unknown to her that her close friend is also in love with the guy.

Ola's friend told the guy about all the secrets just because she wanted the guy for herself and Ola eventually got separated from her boyfriend. The boyfriend got angry and left because she kept so many secrets from him.

Ola was betrayed by her close friend because of a man and ever since then she finds it so hard to have that thing called friendship connection with anyone.

Even normal connection to people is now hard for her to do because she now believes that everyone is the same and they will end up betraying her in the end which is not so but her past made it hard for her to allow people into her mental space.


The truth is that as a human we all need a friend, someone to have a real connection with at some point in our lives but because of what some other people have done to us in past, we limit the connection just to be on a safe side.

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