The rate at which women are dying from domestic violent in my country this day is becoming unbearable, is marriage a do or die? why can't women walk out of the marriage when it's getting unbearable before it leads to their death? must we always bear it for the sake of the children?.
For example a mother of five trying to bear with her cheating and violent husband because of her children and when she think she can't bear it again, she confront her husband and he beat her to death. Or is it the one that asked for her children school fees and the husband in anger smashed her head on the wall and she slumped right there and die in front of her kids.
Staying in a marriage with domestic violent for the sake of the children is not the answer, if we are alive the children will definitely come looking for us and find. Though there is no perfect marriage and every relationship have it's ups and downs but once the argument lead to beating on a continuous process it better to give it a break than to give up our life for it.
When it happened, people will blame women for not walking awaywhen all the beating started and the husband will blame it on the devil. Devil was on his own when you go ahead and invited him over now they will try and put all the blame on him.
Stop trying to fix what is unfixable, some people will not change even if they are given chances over hundred times. Once you sense that the marriage in leading to a dead end, please I beg you let put an end to it and stop thinking of where to start again, every failure is not the end but at times a stepping stone.
It's better for your feelings to be hurt than to lose your life to a toxic relationship, some relationship doesn't worth it because some relationship are bondage from the very beginning, try and free yourself from it before it is too late, don't fall a victim your life is precious even if there is no money. I think I've said enough.
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