Hello beautiful ladies of ladies of hive community, happy New month and I hope this month of March bring us abundant blessings and be our month of victory. Thanks to @merit.ahama for this great question.
Loneliness as it is not about being alone, loneliness is when we feel emptiness deep down our soul, we feel lost even in the midst of people. Loneliness can be so trick, we can feel it even when we are surrounded by people who love us, I have felt it before and I know how tricky it can be.
There was a time I felt so lonely, I lost my job and at the same time lost the brother I love so much, I feel suffocated, I always wondered if I was the only one on earth. I seek for help from people but nobody is willing to help. I got tired of asking people for help, it feels like I was a burden to then, I'm afraid of been judge as a weak person, that is why I isolated my self from people. I choose my phone as a partner and internet as a friend. I find it really hard to interact with the people offline and spend most of my time indulge myself in my phone.
It Hart to make a connection because most people never learn on how to make an healthy connection, and when they try to make connections they started to differentiate class of people. Where there is a rich child that want to go out and spend his father's money and partying with it, there is another kid who is struggling to support himself financially and he will rather stay at home and study.
Even though there might be people who want connection but because of the situation and the state of sadness, you might not notice because the mind will not be there. When I realized that everybody is fighting their own battle and life can not always be what we want, it will bring pain at times but it is a thing we can overcome and we can also look forward to tomorrow. I came out of my shell with that thought. Life can be tough but we can be tougher.
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