Life is so demanding that even as we try so hard to meet up with the demands of life, it is actually not as expected, many times this are the judgment of other people and because of how busy we are trying to meet up with expectations, we have neglected what our minds is saying, but we are never meeting up with the demands of the people.
Most times we will be struggling to be like others and life is almost being squeezed from us by depression and anxiety, we are being intimidated by the result, beauty and success of others instead of being inspired to get there,
All through last two years this is what i was going through, it was very difficult for me, at some point i had almost given up but God showed up, and intervened in an a mazing way. i will be sharing how to also add value to yourself as a person, not minding the challenges you are going through or will be going through in the future.
Self-love is what i have practice and i do believe in it, so i can tell you with all within me that it works like magic, This is what many ladies have actually not look into consideration and it have become the reason why our life is out of control.
Having said this, i will be sharing a few practical tips that if any one can go through, will have an effective result, for want of time i will mention a few of them.
Refrained from comparing yourself with other : you are differently created, with unique abilities, you are not that person and will never be that person, comparing yourself with others is not wisdom
Do not prioritize the opinion of others than yours: believe in yourself, there is greatness in your insights.
Deliberately give or make space for mistake and offence:
If you are doing it consciously, it will help you manage the excesses of others without thinking twice.
Your looks does not what defines your value:
your present situation should not define or suggest your future, We don't look like who we are, you are still on the way to your destiny. don't be distracted, stay focuses, there is joy coming your way, its just by the Conner, stay onboard.See good in every opportunity: it may not be coming as you desire, or in the form you want but in every opportunity, there are element to effectively maximize, so look forward to seeing the best in every opportunity.
Do your best to let go toxic people or relationship: you will always have them, it is amazing that we do not decide the people we meet with but we can decide either to keep them or not, it is your choose to keep toxic relationship or let go, but i will suggest that you do your best to let go.
Confront your Fears :
the fight you run away from will still be waiting for some day in the future, fight it now, that you have the strength, it is good to bear your joke when you are still strong, what ever it is, fight it with the strength of today, do not borrow from the future, any time you procrastinate, you are borrowing from the future instead of investing into the future. when you use the resources meant for the future today, what will you do when you get to the future?. be wise and take responsibility for yourself.Learn to love yourself first before others: This is what i do and i can tell you that it is an amazing experience, over the years i was killing myself, and trying to show love to people that i never showed myself, but a few year ago it came clear to me that i can only love people to the degree i have loved myself, then my eye was open, i have to first of all have a test of the love experience that i want to show to others.
š„š„this is what i have to teach you and people around me, it has blessed my life in no small way and i know you will thank me letter if you stick to it.š„š„
I want to celebrate all the amazing and beautiful ladies in the house, the truth is that, without us, the society will not be complete. so lets keep our fate,
I want say a big thank you #ladiesofhive for this week's questions. This post is my entry to question of the week contest. I invite @enwongoabasi and @preshdishes to participate in this contest. thanks for having me.