If you are referring to manners Mrs. ifarmgirl and Ladies Of Hive besides it is of healthy men, I dislike any besides that detracts from their manly character. Ex: to shake his head, to drop his hands, that he hates to touch banal things like doorknobs.
As far as, my husband J.R. and I are concerned, both he and I have adopted ways, ways of doing things, gestures that over the years one tolerates from the other, even knowing that he doesn't like it we still do it as part of our identity.
It is common to sound the throat to scratch it from the inside, blow the soup, scratch the ears or nose in public.... haha anything you can think of lack of glamour and sound is doable. Horrible YES, but tolerated as part of that you know your partner up to the seams and that's how you love and respect him without posing.
Between manners and gestures, there are even men who talk shouting and groping seem violent, and it turns out that they are telling a joke! Hahaha
Maybe he has his manias and what happens is that he's more obsessive, to the point that he's not calm until he does things the way he does them, orders in pairs, or comes back to make sure he turned something off. Over the years one becomes like this, it is pathological when you see that stopping doing it, or you are trying to avoid it creates distress.
He's disciplined, he schedules until the queues for his job... hahaha. He is very respected for keeping his appointments, commitments, and meetings. I remember that he never missed the football, swimming and Olympic gymnastics games of the children. It has to do with a lot of what I study at Military High school, since he was a child.
Without a doubt, we have set limits, during these 47 years of marriage, for me, it represents an act of love, because we have learned to know each other, take care of each other, and that has given us the opportunity to be empathetic and grow together.
We are both facing the same direction.
In times of overflow and in times of drought, magic happens: trust grows, real and deep connection, between us, transforming each other.
Our bond is a safe place, there we open our heart, and it is cared for, because we show our most vulnerable humans parts, we express our feelings and listen to each other, validate, accept, love in its entirety, with our lights and shadows, in the most challenging and challenging moments.
Everything even in the moments where I have seen what I don't like, the worst thing about my husband and vice versa, as long as he is healthy and does not damage our relationship of 47 years of marriage, everything comes as a result of our decisions. As long as the relationship with my husband J.R., is healthy, loving, with respect, tolerance and by choice of both parties, in our case it is to stay until the end of our life, hand in hand.
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