🌠Greetings beautiful Ladies 👠 that we integrate Ladies of Hive and that every week we revive This space answering those enigmatic and wonderful questions; which appear to surprise us, always loaded with emotion and feminine essence 🍃. Each contest invites us to meet and learn from our own experiences as successful women and creators of content.
Por acá mi entrada de esta semana, a nuestro Contest #18
Here is my entry this week, to our Contest #18
- 1.-¿Cuál es el mejor consejo que te ha dado tu madre, abuela, tía, modelo a seguir o una amiga?// What is the best advice your mother, grandmother, aunt, female role model, or a female friend ever gave you?
Wow!!a great question for thought. My mother has always been characterized as a very submissive woman, because in her time she was taught that she should be a good daughter, wife and sister. Therefore she always, to avoid risky situations, because she is very nervous! Prefers to go unnoticed.
So let's say that she has taught us more by her example than by her speaking. From that I deduce that we do not learn so much from sermons but more from example, from the prototypes of the people we idealize and as those of us who want to be as adults ...She is always dedicated to cooking, taking many courses in pastry, keeping the house neat and take care of your children. Always waiting at home for the moment when her husband arrives to serve her food. That! Maybe in these times for some women it sounds overwhelming.
Anhelando Muchas veces Verla más Feliz 💝 Longing many times to see her Happier
Let's say I! I learned to take that warmth, Simplicity and Love, In addition to that dedication to home and I combine it with my present time, because that is what evolution as human beings is about; of not being so radical and believing that everything must be square and fitted. Not to spend our whole lives in reproach and say, I am like that because that was what I saw in my home.
From the advice and example of my mother, I love cooking, I am very dedicated to my children, to listen to them and guide them. Laughing, watching television with them, helping them combine clothes according to their fashion tastes, to name a few experiences. And that attitude has allowed me to maintain a thread of trust as they grow. They usually tell me their daily stories, as something normal.
I am fortunate because at any time of the day my children tell me about their friends and I know each one of them, although some of them I know their entire lives and only their names! jajaja But I get to know their day-to-day experiences, their tastes and their fears; even how they are able to react to situations they live.
Para mí es el mejor consejo que mi madre me ha podido dar, su ejemplo de buena madre!.
For me it is the best advice that my mother has been able to give me, her example of a good mother!.
On the other hand, one of my older sisters also influenced me a lot, she always very focused, with her established vision of where she wanted to be, how she wanted to live. She worked during the day, until about 6:00 pm and then went to the private university that she paid for herself. Thus she graduated and was for many years, stewardess of the Avianca Airline in Venezuela. That was what he always wanted to be! His perseverance and clarity motivated me to trust that I too could work and study at the same time, and I did.
- 2.- Si pudieras retroceder en el tiempo y darle a tu yo más joven solo un consejo, ¿cuál sería?// If you could go back in time and give your younger-self just one piece of advice what would it be?
Wow! This question did take me immediately to my adolescence, it was like looking in a mirror at that slim girl with big beautiful eyes and long shiny hair; they called Pocahontas! but that at that moment she felt very ugly for being so thin and with clothes always given away or mended because there was never enough money to buy something new. That teenager who dreamed of being a model and a dancer! I went straight to my 13 and 14 years.
It is somewhat difficult to give me one piece of advice. I would say trust you, you are smart and valuable! Share with your friends, learn to drive, don't be so fearful, dedicate yourself to doing language, dance and makeup courses even if your father scolds you for being on the street! Convince him that you are doing what you love!
I must confess that I cried with this answer! My adolescence was very hard. He couldn't fit in anywhere. Despite this, I never took the path of alcohol and drugs. But I do feel that I wasted a lot of time in unnecessary sadness due to my lack of self-esteem, which I could have taken advantage of in learning things that today would serve me to support myself financially.
Seguramente de esa experiencia vienen esas ganas Enormes! de motivar a mis hijos en cada cosa que quieren aprender, de decirles: ÁNIMO! Tú puedes, nuestro cerebro está capacitado para aprender todo lo que quieras.
Surely from that experience comes that huge desire! to motivate my children in everything they want to learn, to tell them: ENCOURAGE! You can, our brain is trained to learn everything you want.
Como siempre! Mil Gracias a Ladies of Hive por estas maravillosas preguntas que nos ayudan a Conocernos, Auto aceptarnos y Crecer!
As always! A thousand thanks to Ladies of Hive for these wonderful questions that help us to know ourselves, accept ourselves and grow!
Que bien nos hace Escribir y Crear Contenido!
How good it does us to write and create content!
Si aún no te has sumado a estos contest encantadores, estamos por el #18 pero puedes integrarte cuándo lo desees, serás Bienvenida!. Te comparte el link original.Ladies of hive Constes#18
If you have not yet joined these charming contests, we are for # 18 but you can join when you want, you will be Welcome!.Share the original link.Ladies of hive Constes#18
Esta semana invito a @Alejandria12 , @Antoniarhuiz
This week I invite @Alejandria12 , @Antoniarhuiz*
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