Happy New Week Ladies!
It's really been a long stressful, but wonderful Monday.I learnt a lot last week, and one thing I learnt is that those who are influential and make an impact do not make a lot of noise,you just see the successful things they do. There's always a story. I've learnt not to be a fan of comfortable success, it's a nice feeling when you work for something and you achieve success, it's encouraging, and even when you don't succeed, trying more is advised, success is sure when you have a passion for something, believing in yourself is key as well.
I've learnt that the friends we keep also determine our being successful or failing. Friends who have nothing positive to offer should be avoided, now positivity isn't just about money,a good friend's support could be a push that would lead you to success,no one wants to be a failure,an adage says not everyone who rides with you in the boat are paddling with you, some are making holes, friendship is a two, three or more people something, it's not a nice thing when you're not helping someone achieve success, help can be given in little ways,to achieve success, there are some people you need to cut off from, there are some places you have to curtail going to, there's some level of discipline you need to have.
Giving up is not always the answer when there's failure, running away from criticism is not going to help,yes we must not pay attention to every critic but then sometimes we learn from some of the criticism.
Having a mentor or discipler helps as well, it's best to have someone who is mature , and someone you can access and be close to. Yes we all have those celebrities and role models we look up to, but someone closer to us, someone we can reach out to help more.
It's a nice thing to have ideas, but then don't just sit and keep having ideas,do something, make a move to make it work,in Akwa Ibom state, "Dakkada" meaning rise ,rise to the faith of greatness, do something, don't die with mind-blowing,life changing ideas, make them happen.
I do hope you had a wonderful week as well, not a fan of Mondays but I was brave enough to start the new week.
I love you Ladies 💕!
Your friend,
Darah 😉