Hola, hola, a todas las hermosas damas que conforman esta maravillosa comunidad ❤️.
Hello, hello, to all the beautiful ladies who make up this wonderful community ❤️.
Today again I join @ladiesofhive 😌 for this new contest, the #133 👏🏻 where they bring us two wonderful items or questions to which we must give answers. As I mentioned in my previous post for a while now I wanted to participate in these and now that I did, I can't stop participating 🤭🤭🤭🤭.
This week's items are very good, so here my answers 😅:
No es necesario que sea una madre soltera para compartir sus pensamientos sobre esto, ya que todos debemos haber visto o estado cerca de uno, si no hemos sido uno. Ellas también son madres, pero ¿qué tan diferentes? ¿Tienes algún consejo para que sigan empujando?
1️⃣ Single Mothers!
You don't have to be a single mother to share your thoughts on this, as we all must have seen or been close to one, if not been one. They are mothers too, but how different? Do you have any advice for them to keep pushing?
Different? I really believe that being a single mother does not make any of them different, nor less, nor anything like that. I particularly feel that they are women who have to fight twice as hard to get ahead and raise those little ones.
Although all mothers have a breaking point, a bad day, a gray moment when we do not see the sun shining as usual among so many occupations, so much mental load and so many things that happen to us, when we are single mothers this is multiplied.
When you are a single mother you have to play two roles, that of mom and dad. Therefore, you have much more to teach and you have to give twice as much for your baby, so that he is well and feels that he does not need anything in his life and much less the presence of another person, you have to fill the void left by a father or a mother (in the case of being a single father, since there are some).
The only advice you can give to a single mother is to keep fighting for your baby, to see every day that smile, those bright eyes. That if at some point you decide to rebuild your love life, choose that person very well, someone who first of all loves your babies and who, like you, is willing to give everything for them and to take care of them as if they were yours, since this is the most important thing when it comes to being with someone else.
And I do not want to leave this topic without telling those single mothers that I congratulate and admire them for their dedication, for their effort and because even and in spite of everything they are still there in the daily fight for their children. My respects to all of you 👏🏻❤️.
Algunos hombres creen que las mujeres aman el dinero más que ellos, otros creen algo más... ¿Cuál es la mentira más grande que has escuchado o visto que los hombres realmente creen sobre las mujeres?
2️⃣ Biggest lies!
Some men believe women to love money more than they do, others believe something else... What is the biggest lie you've heard or seen men actually believe about women?
This makes me laugh a lot 😂 because I go to a point that I don't know if it's true, but I think the biggest lie that men believe about women is that we don't go to the bathroom to relieve ourselves 😂, just pee. When you are getting to know them and then there is a certain confidence to tell them that you go to the bathroom, their face is a poem, as if it wasn't something normal 😂. I know they know if we have needs, but I don't know why they are so surprised 😂.
Besides that, they believe that we all have that perfect body, without any marks, without stretch marks or cellulite 🤷🏻♀️. Maybe there are those who do have beautiful bodies but not all of us, we are all different and perfect in our own way.
And the worst thing, that they think we are their mothers or the chore girl at home 🙄. Currently I do not understand how there are still men so macho that believe that we women when we are their partner are only and exclusively to take care of them, the house and the children, what's wrong with them? We are in a world where activities and chores should be shared, where there should be mutual help, support and above all respect.
Well, dear friends, this is my opinion 🤭. I hope to read you and that you read me. Until a next post ☺️.
Un gran y fuerte abrazo 🤗
A big and strong hug 🤗
|| Todo el texto fue redactado por mi persona @chelle0891 || Llevado al inglés mediante DeepL traductor ||
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|| All text was written by myself @chelle0891 || Translated to English using DeepL translator ||
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