Hello beautiful ladies of @LadiesOfHive 🌼, I hope this week that begins comes full of success, blessings and many good things for all ✨.
Once again I say present to the LOH #135 Contest, answering an interesting question to which I really had a hard time deciding what answer to give, since I didn't know if I should go for a trick in terms of doing something tangible or just an attitude.
This week's question is asked by @brittandjosie and well here's what I decided to answer 🤭:
⏺ I want you to tell me about a life changing "hack" (a trick or shortcut that makes your life easier), the one that changed your life totally. Be inspiring to me and other readers. It can be any hack or change you made. It must be a thing YOU DID, YOURSELF! Tell me how it worked and what was needed. Did it cost you time, money, etc.? And how long did it last?
First I must say that a gimmick can be those skills that are obtained to reach an end, therefore the gimmick that has changed my life this last time is more an attitude than anything else.
Something that has worked for me for some time is the fact of seeing the things that happen to us from another perspective, as if it were happening to someone else or simply see the positive side of the situation so as not to overwhelm us in the attempt to solve or get out of there. Since being a person who overthinks things, rather than looking for a solution I used to sink into what was happening to me (I still do it sometimes when everything overcomes me 🤦🏻♀️), for this reason I decided to start seeing everything differently, from another point of view or simply to take the positive points of that moment.
Since I started doing this I have been able to find the solution to the problems that arise faster and to know how to wait for the moment when everything happens, because when we think about how to solve a situation or see the positive that somehow can bring us this, everything begins to happen faster and becomes more bearable.
To do this the first thing I needed was a lot of encouragement from me to me, a person who you know will not lie to you when telling you things, in my case it was my dear friend @royvego55 and above all a lot of positive mentality. I have not achieved 100% yet but I am on the right track, it takes time to go from closing yourself in something that happens to try to change the way of seeing things, everything will depend on ourselves and the desire we have to change.
And they are attitudes that if we learn to develop in us can serve us all our lives and help us in the grayest moments we may have. I particularly recommend you to change your way of thinking and always keep in mind that everything in life is temporary, nothing lasts forever and you will see how everything will change little by little.
I sincerely hope that my trick for leading your life works for everyone who reads me. ❤️
I send as always a big hug 🤗
|| Todo el texto fue redactado por mi persona @chelle0891 || Llevado al inglés mediante DeepL traductor ||
|| Las fotos presentadas fueron tomadas por mi Infinix Hot 12 Play y editadas con Canva e InShot||
|| All text was written by myself @chelle0891 || Translated to English using DeepL translator ||
|| The photos presented were taken by my Infinix Hot 12 Play and edited with Canva and InShot||