aquí y les invito a hacerlo. Mientras yo comenzaré a desarrollar el tema, respondiendo a mi manera las directrices y ellos en el reto como principal pregunta: ¿Que es la intimidad para usted? para mi son esos momentos especiales que se pueden tener con nuestros seres amados, y pueden variar en diferentes aspectos: pareja, hijos, familiares, amistad y cosas. Pero solo se logra intimidad con alguien en quien confiamos o algo con lo que uno se siente cómodo, lo que deja fluir en cualquier relación un sentimiento que casi siempre se basa en la confianza y ella puede variar en aspectos, porque nosotros no consideramos todo, pero siempre se basa en eso, confianza, es allí donde se da ese momento especial que llena nuestro corazón de eso y se llena a poder compartir la verdad de los pensamientos, porque si no se tiene una relación realmente intima, siempre se oculta lo que de verdad se piensa y ese es el freno que no permite la verdadera intimidad y solo es una otra relación y no una especial e intima. Creo que nosotros los humanos siempre miramos ésta palabra más desde el lado sexual, pues con la persona que más compartimos intimidad es con la pareja o así debería ser, porque ésto no es del todo verdad (por menos es lo que queremos que piense nuestra pareja, jajaja) ya que podría haber otra relación en nuestras vidas que sea aún más intima, pero eso es otro tema.
Hello Earthlings, how are you? Today I join this challenge that the ecotrain community does, today it is about "privacy" if you want to participate click here and I invite you to do so. While I will begin to develop the theme, answering the guidelines in my own way and they in the challenge as the main question: What is privacy for you? For me they are those special moments that can be had with our loved ones, and they can vary in different aspects: partner, children, family, friendship and things. But intimacy is only achieved with someone we trust or something with which one feels comfortable, which allows a feeling that is almost always based on trust to flow in any relationship and it can vary in aspects, because we do not consider everything, But it is always based on that, trust, it is there that there is that special moment that fills our hearts with that and fills up to be able to share the truth of thoughts, because if you do not have a really intimate relationship, you always hide what you really think and that is the brake that does not allow true intimacy and it is just another relationship and not a special and intimate one. I think that we humans always look at this word more from the sexual side, because with the person we share the most intimacy with the partner or so it should be, because this is not entirely true (at least it is what we want our partner to think , hahaha) since there could be another relationship in our lives that is even more intimate, but that's another matter.
The partner is the one with whom we share the most time, it is also our life partner in that project that we have in our mind to live, so it is an important part of us and we should really have an intimate relationship, based on trust And this would lead us to have a healthier life emotionally, because we all know that trust is based on truth and when we analyze intimacy it leads us to these words: trust, truth and the sum of that is equal to, love. We must be honest with ourselves, we must start there, since we always want to lie, it is not all our fault, because it is society that makes us have false ideas, and everyone believes that a white lie helps, and that leads to a thousand more lies, so don't lie to the one you love or it won't be love, just selfishness. Come, again "the truth" is what will guide us to love.
It all starts with a simple question about intimacy, but it takes us through that internal world of things that we are, the self, the person and that makes us analyze that if we want an intimate relationship with others, we must first have it with ourselves, go there to that world that few of us touch because we do not like to feel uncomfortable and that is how so many things we learned in the course of our lives take us away from real intimacy, that which is enjoyed with being and is achieved by starting with ourselves and intimate moments that they make us accept who we are and change what is wrong, this will lead us to humility, the main tool to begin to tell the truth about our feelings, what we really think and not what we know that others want to hear. I think it answers the second guideline or question, do you need it to be happy? and Yes we need it to be happy, but we must identify what true intimacy is.
How do you meet your privacy needs? The answer is simple and I have been saying it before, the truth is, she satisfies that need, if you speak honestly you satisfy that need, that is why you can have intimacy: even with yourself, with nature, with the dark, with another person, with a pet, because that is intimacy, sharing the truth of what you feel to calm the soul.
COVID19, this evil that afflicts us has kept intimacy from the human being, because to achieve that moment you must be calm, calm and that allows us to bring out the feeling, because that is an internal feeling of being. That corona virus has brought us much more than the evil of catching the virus itself, a lot of worries and stress that makes intimacy almost impossible, in addition to making many ill with other diseases that are accelerated by all this. It seems incredible but the quarantine has locked many of us, which makes us suffocate in the face of so much pressure due to sudden changes, which keeps us in constant tension, which should be used as a time to calm down and share with the family, it becomes a nightmare for so many things that occupy our minds, many problems have addressed the heads of the family, those who are much more affected by the situation than having to maintain the home and its expenses (all this without taking into account the great problems that occur in my country due to the already deteriorating economy) worldwide the virus has wreaked havoc on privacy and what in my opinion will be the cause of many problems for the masses in the future, because it has changed all the pressure that it implies to humans, causing each time let's be more closed beings, which reduces personal growth and directly affects intimacy.
Earthlings, as always, I take the opportunity to add a piece of my book "La Verdad" to each publication, which I do so that it is not completely lost if in any case I die before publishing it completely, because I keep that book in my head. I will place a part of a poem that talks about intimacy:
Solo la briza a llegado ser tan intima, como para decirle todos mis secretos, esos que solo el silencio sabe expresar en su canto alegre, uno que lleva la letra marcada en la alegría que deja la verdad del amor sin palabras, ese que besa con los labios sutiles de la sinceridad, es lo que me dijo el reflejo frente al espejo mientras danzaba alegre por un nuevo día juntos. La vida sonríe el alma abraza nuestro verso. Only the breeze has become so intimate, as to tell you all my secrets, those that only silence knows how to express in its joyful song, one that bears the letter marked in joy that leaves the truth of love without words, that that kisses with the subtle lips of sincerity, is what the reflection in front of the mirror told me as I danced happily for a new day together. Life smiles the soul embraces our verse.
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Estas son las directrices que colocan en el reto, y las que use para basar la publicación: "P. ¿Qué es la intimidad para usted? ¿La necesita para ser feliz? ¿Cómo satisface sus necesidades de intimidad ... especialmente durante COVID19? Invitamos a todos a unirse a nosotros y publicar su respuesta en este QOTW"
Here are the guidelines they put into the challenge, and the ones I use to base the post: "Q. What is intimacy to you? Do you need it to be happy? How do you meet your intimacy needs ... especially during COVID19 ? We invite everyone to join us and post your response in this QOTW "
Nota-Note
Bilingüe: Que utiliza dos lenguas al mismo nivel o se hace en dos lenguas
Bilingual: That uses two languages ??at the same level or is done in two languages.
Lent: G.A.F 60mm de una cámara analógica profesional antigua,el cual uso frente a la cámara digital GN y así poder aumentar su alcance, logrando el aumento suficiente para hacer fotografías macro, para esto debes tapar la luz entre el lente de la cámara y el que usas para aumentar con la mano y así evitar que a las fotos les salgan rayos de luz que bajen su calidad.
Lens: GAF 60mm from an old professional analog camera, which I use in front of the GN digital camera and thus be able to increase its range, achieving enough magnification to take macro photographs, for this you must cover the light between the camera lens and the that you use to increase by hand and thus avoid that the photos get rays of light that lower their quality.
Location: Villa de Cura.
Original photographs of willsaldeno, I do not edit the photos, because I like to put only what I achieve with the camera and not something improved with an editor.
