ecoTrain Question Of The Week: What is intimacy to you? Do you need it to be happy? How do you fulfill your intimacy needs.. especially during COVID19?

It is a great pleasure for me to stop by and greet you, also, I saw this very interesting activity that is promoted by @ecoTrain and @eco-alex.

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And these are my answers:

1. What is intimacy for you?

Intimacy for me consists of the thoughts and feelings that we carry inside that we only know ourselves and of course God, from whom we cannot hide anything, perhaps we can also share part of our intimacy with our colleagues or closest friends, but it depends on the degree of trust that such people show us.

2. Do you need it to be happy?

I believe that we all need in our life to be intimate with someone, not only in sexual relations, which is the most common example in terms of intimacy, understanding that such intimacy should only involve such people in what is said and done, not come out of any of them, this type of intimacy does not bring happiness but rather in the bible it is spoken of as a "delight" but it is also very pleasant, but it does not make us happy; Have trusted friends with whom we can vent by sharing with them some intimate situations in our life, of any kind.

Because if something makes us happy as people, it is knowing that we have friends who listen to us and who can advise us in due course and better if that friend is your own partner, child or any other relative that we can feel confident about. aunt with whom I share many secrets, both of them and mine and we have cried on different occasions in our lives. And comforting us when we do not meet, we lack time to talk since we live very far from each other, she is an aunt but for me she is my best friend.

3. How do you meet your privacy needs ... especially during COVID19?

My intimate needs in these moments of covid-19 where we should not visit friends even if they are trusted but rather out of prudence we should stay at home. I have particularly decided to be intimate with God, I tell Him all my anxieties and fears, although you know, Everything I am feeling, in this way I take advantage of venting with Him. He is our best friend, he will never disappoint us. Also with my husband and children we have intimidated issues that we have not discussed before. But now with so many times together at home we can share.

Thank you very much and God bless you.

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