Sometimes one is left in the ocean deep thought and tempted to draw an inference of just giving up because of certain factors.
Sometimes when you critically look at life, you would say have I just escorted some people to the world to come achieve their purpose?
Sometimes one could say I am tired of life and you won't understand what I been through.
We are also tempted to say there's no balance on this earth because the rich seems to be more richer while the poorer keeps getting poor.
At times the mouth becomes uncontrollable with negative words, confession and eventually end in a suicidal mission.
Whatever might be the reason or the challenges you are combating now, there's still more better things ahead.
With my few experiences working among the young people, I have counseled, mentored, etc and my personal life experience, I shall share in consonant to the title of this piece. I believe this might spark someone at the verge of giving up. This might be a panacea to someone at the point of saying no to life. Has your feelings metamorphosed from being optimistic to pessimistic? Has your positive confession suddenly changed and your new sentence now is "feeling like giving up?" Hmmmm just follow me and read through.
Listen to this story, she had a handsome, wealthy man. Married to him for almost a decade now and blessed with two beautiful kids. As life keeps unfolding, a challenge of sickness suddenly broke out. She never thought something like would come. Ha... Do you need to prepare for sickness? I think anytime you discovered that for couple of months you've visited the hospital kindly appreciate God.
She didn't know this sickness would escalate to where it is today. As time goes by, the man's health keeps deteriorating in her very eyes. She opted him to some medical centres for a check up all efforts proof abortive. Later he was brought back home because it appears as if all hope is gone and every method had been used just waiting for God's intervention.
The amazing thing is that look at resources, materials etc but the body isn't in a proper condition to enjoy all these. What kind of life is this? Is it not better for one to exit from the earth? Diversified thoughts keeps flying.
When I stepped in I had to try my best to see how hope can be restored again, I started speaking positive things to her and build her confidence. In life, challenges must come but what do you do when they come? That's what matters most. At the end, the counsel her and she really yielded to it. Her mind has been renewed now. Do you know that the man didn't die but recovered from that sickness.
LESSONS
- 1 No matter the hurdles of life, there is an end if you don't give up.
- 2 Persevere. Most people don't know that life is like a coin which has two sides sweet and bitter. Therefore learn to endure every circumstances.
- 3 The kind of counsel you yield to determines whether you'll give up or not. Most people give simply because of the kind of wrong advise they received. It's also good to maintain a good mentor they can help when situations becomes tough and difficult.
- 4 Our mind is a battlefield and also determines whether you'll win or loose at the end. You must learn to be positive and optimistic about things.
- 5 Be tolerant no matter the situation. Everyone needs love and compassion. Some die along the way because of emotional in balance. Show care to the sick always.
CONCLUSION
Feeling like give up might come but what do you do when it comes? You can't afford to give now because the present challenge seems to paint the future dark for you. What makes you feel like giving up might not be sickness as I shared but could be any kind of circumstances Cheer up, all gonna be well. Your turn is loading.