We were able to be friends again because he got help with his drinking problem and no longer is using alcohol or drugs. The kids have some bad childhood memories, and are not particularly fond of him, but they will come visit him if he's at my house. So I usually plan a meal and invite everyone and that way he gets to spend a little time with the kids and the grandkids. The last time he was here, last fall, we went out for a drive and went past many of the places that had been important to us as kids growing up in this area. It was fun to reminisce-- we have a lot of history together.
Her new job is going to be really challenging, isn't it? I really hope it is satisfying work and that she likes it enough to put up with all of the inconvenience of the hours they expect her to work, and all of the rules that I imagine go along with that job.
RE: High Water