There are many such incidents in life when we recognize our own and others.
On such occasions, many times when someone's behavior comes in front of us, it hurts a lot. But many times if we look, we ourselves are the cause of hurting ourselves. By making someone our relative in our good days, by spreading our secrets on someone, by backbiting, by telling the faults of others, we are giving ourselves double trouble. One, we spoil our deeds, and when the time of trial comes, that person leaves us, we feel more sorrow. Therefore, perhaps someone has said very well that not everyone who shakes hands is a friend.