<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>https://ecency.com</link><image><url>https://ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>https://ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 18:31:09 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://ecency.com/created/cherish/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Don't Defeat Yourself Before You Try: My 27 years journey as a therapist]]></title><description><![CDATA["Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right." – Henry Ford While reading, I came across this quote. Are you familiar with it? In many ways, it reflects a truth about human nature.]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@rubenjr/dont-defeat-yourself-before-you-try-my-27-years-journey-as-a-therapist</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@rubenjr/dont-defeat-yourself-before-you-try-my-27-years-journey-as-a-therapist</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-188409]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rubenjr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2026 02:24:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVecs4xkhd5EvhidWEEBnn9tCVDBkBhQpUFvab78MhbU1Vui5EdPwPYMC7yeZGZ4kLuPFga1Rmgz9qMiuBA5ZpQWyXGN84HdmXQQBCRhHm99bCkbxLXvSDMGqGmh5zocu2zFu3ZQeyBKrQ6uKhN7RDQXDY?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Girl I Admire, The Woman I Married: 21st Wedding Anniversary Tribute ]]></title><description><![CDATA["I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you." — Roy Croft stumbled upon this quote right after our wedding anniversary, and it truly resonates withme. 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I'm going to share my day 5 journal today and I hope you'll enjoy. 😄 In the morning, I helped the student]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@rufajane/work-immersion-diary-fourth-day-memories-to-keep</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@rufajane/work-immersion-diary-fourth-day-memories-to-keep</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-148441]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rufajane]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 13:08:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/5s4dzRwnVbzGY5ssnCE4wXzkeAEXyVtgk1ApQTwHMTp6y5PvEo1yennC795e4bzN1NZXmqkH3eNuSB5jZg4YNVf9ujPrvC1BbzvvC1WaGqC7YWtzC7BEopkuXxhQ13eVgekKWZY2thDEuX2cYteGQFs3FUZjUXZUhgj9Uyk?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Day Worth Writing]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hello, everyone. I know that you have been following my Immersion Diary 😄. Now, let’s take a quick break because I will be sharing with you my Sunday adventure. 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