Allah Ta'ala says:
"The men are leaders over women - their wives, because Allah has overpowered the rest of them, and also because the men have spent on their wealth, so the women who are sincere are the obedient and keep themselves in the absence of her husband, as he is commanded to keep himself by God. " (an-Nisa ': 34)
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Given the content implied in the above verse, Allah Almighty has given provisions that can not be changed or is a sunatullah, that is, that harmony of the household, when a man can master the whole things of the household, can arrange and supervise the wife as his life comrades and control of everything that goes into his housekeeping affairs as well as the government, must be able to fully control and regulate the state of the people.
When this is overturned, for example the wife who controls the husband, or equals the power, so as if there is no followers and that followed, no regulators and arranged, it is certain that the circumstances of the household meet the chaos and there can be no peace and tranquility in it .