The reservoir of beliefs that each of us holds within, is the main factor that influences what happens to us. If we deeply accept this axiom we automatically free ourselves from major psychic blocks.
The personal beliefs that we hold regarding our daily lives form each moment and second whether or not such a moment is happy or tragic. If, for instance, your personal beliefs took you to a place of self-esteem, absolute certainty in the existence of TrueLove and undoubted knowing that you are worthy enough to experience it here and now, then TrueLove would definitely and instantly manifest in your life. The fact that such thing has not happened yet only means that your beliefs have not been fined enough, have not become accurate enough, to reach the necessary level to allow that. Anyhow, this is what we are here for.
These beliefs can be likened to huge and heavy steam-rollers which press on us from above and prevent us from growing and expanding. The mechanism of those rollers is similar to a vacuum: no matter how hard we may pull the cover from the outside it will not be released and our immense effort will be to no avail. Nonetheless, as soon as we make a small change from within, like allowing a small bubble of air to enter the empty space, the mechanism will be effortlessly released at once without having to invest any pressure. Such is the case with the prominent beliefs that govern the bigger portion of our thinking. As soon as we recognize them, understand them and invest a little time to work with them, they will be discharged. Then, the feeling of freedom will be highly tangible.
It’s sad to say but as long as you continue to believe in such separation TrueLove and its kingdom will remain distant and unattained. Not because you are punished; not because your belief is wrong and you must be educated “the truth”; but simply because you create your own life and your sheer belief, like any other natural law, creates such a disjointed reality. You will keep chasing after TrueLove but as soon as you get closer and reach out your hand to touch it, you will realize that a high and unseen wall divides between you two. That wall is the cover that was created by the belief that there is a separation between you, the human, and spirit/god/nature – you name it. The truth is as always: the human's world and the spirits world is one.
The truth is different. Your human self is a valuable and precious gift that grants you the feasibility to live in the physical world. When you reach the level of TrueLove, still in this body and in the physical reality, you will still carry along your memories, your thoughts and the beautiful self that you currently know. Any attempt to trace a new path, a special meditation, certain foods to consume or weird rituals to follow in order to forget your human-self will only take you away from TrueLove; why? because TrueLove wants to feel and to experience the physical world through the channel that you provide. If it saw that you are denying your humanness or treat your body poorly, it would simply go and search for a new appropriate conduit.