Hi Nick great to hear from you - we should really meet up at some point!
And yes life is a constant balancing act challenge!
I'm afraid I've given up on 3Speak for the time being. Just too awkward to use/problem prone. I live the decentralised ideals - but as an artist with limited time I have to prioritise using tools with the best usability and possibility to connect. Still gonna be posting on hive though as I've met some great people here.