¿De dónde eres?, tiene una cultura muy linda y también es uno de mis favoritos, los de animales se me hacen los más padres y en ese pareciera como si hubieran calcado dos Alebrijes.

yes, it seems that he was sad. But hey, we can't always be happy.

Lacanian psychoanalysis

26/ That's it about boundaries and structuring during the childhood stage. I hope you liked my #threadstorm :)

25/ Another advice: Never punish or set boundaries to kids that have to do with school or sports, because these activities provide structure and stability, you can't punish stability providers.

24/ Some advice to parents: Only set boundaries that you WILL go through with. During a rage fit you must never set a strict boundary that you will never go fulfill (you can't threaten to throw away an

23/ As a parent it is not easy to set boundaries to our kids, because you see them in pain and crying or even begging, but it is important to not crave and hold on to these boundaries that will benefit

22/ Nowadays we see many children that know that it just takes one tantrum to get their way after their parents deny them something. This happens often in the supermarket when the parent won't buy the

21/ Because a child that grew up without boundaries struggles with relationships, respecting other people and can't deal with frustration when someone doesn't play along with what they want.

20/ What I tell parents who struggle with boundaries, is that they shouldn't set them in order to set their authority role or to simplify their life, but to do so to save their child's life and not turn

19/ After several scenarios like this one, everything around the child stops making sense, and the kid knows that even if he doesn't do what he must, he will get his way in life. This is just an example

18/ As you can see, the boundary was already set by the mother and the child understood perfectly what it meant. But the child got his way and through bad behavior managed to change the boundary even after

16/ Example: A child didn't pick up his toys just like his mother told him to. She then tells the boy that since he didn't do it, he is can't watch TV. The child starts crying and begging to watch TV and

15/ Confusing and contradictory boundaries are those that are not consistent and are often interrupted or intermittent, this cause the child to not understand where or why are boundaries like this.

14/ These guilts often leads to the parents to be too lax and let the child do everything they want, or leads to confusing boundaries or contradictory limits.

13/ These reasons span from guilt from leaving a child alone when the parent has to work, or not paying attention to the kid for several hours, or even after a big scolding. This often leads to guilt on

12/ It's common for parents to struggle in setting boundaries/limits to their child, mainly because guilt plays a role in the child/parent relationship. There are many reasons for which a parent can't

11/ This is why the topic limits is such an important part of the structure in a child's mind, especially when you can also work alongside with the child's parents.

10/ This doesn't mean that we can't help adults, but during it's just that during the childhood stage there is still no concrete psychic structure, it's still a work in progress.

9/ That's one of the main reasons for which I like working with kids. They are in a life stage where you as a therapist, still have a lot of ways to help them.