Hello everyone, I trust that you are doing very well.
It's been a long time, and I am very excited to be here again. This week's topic is what I was actually pondering about last week.
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Friendship is something that happens between two people or amongst people. It is something that happens when people trust and appreciate themselves. Friendship is supposed to be something that should make people and help them grow from one level to another.
People have what they look out for in friendships and what they want their friends to do for them; it can differ from one person to the other.
For me, before I can call someone my friend, that person needs to pass some tests because I cannot just wake up and call you a friend. Normally, these people just call people they see 'friend', not allowing themselves to know the true meaning of friendship.
Trust is something I love in friendship; if I just trust you for the first time, then I could consider you as a friend. There are people that my heart just chooses so that no matter who they are, I would love them naturally. I know how imperfect people can be, but if my instincts tell me to be close to you, then I would just give it a try. Because there are people that, from the start, I will not just want to be close to. Trust should be mutual because in friendship both parties have something to offer, so if I trust you and you leave as if you are still a stranger, then I may just quit the friendship.
As friends, communication is very important, as that is what will help friendship grow. No one can actually say that there is friendship if they do not communicate with themselves. It is very important that in friendship there should be time when they talk to understand themselves, and communication should not be on frivolities; friends should be able to scold themselves and correct themselves and still love themselves no matter how the correction made them feel. This is what good communication does in friendships.
If I have a friend, I value times we spent together because, of course, I know we won't spend our time saying things that will not benefit us, so I feel friends should always value their relationship and make sure that they see it as something very important.
It is very important to have a friend that will build you and make you grow; it is not out of place to tell your friend the truth the way it is.
Friendship should be something very sweet; it should be a journey because we can actually learn marriage from friendship.