There's something they call one voice. Not that the man won't say she shouldn't go. But accepting and already finalising everything before telling her man highly says a lot about that woman

I feel it's something couples should discuss about rather than making the discussion by herself before informing her man

This really got me laughing when I read through.. it was as if she didn't respect her husband for her not to be considerate to inform and discuss it with him at first

Exactly that

That's probably the biggest difference between silence and moving on. Silence changes the contact, but moving on changes how you feel.

So maybe moving on isn't about forgetting them at all.

Even seeing them again doesn't make you question your decision to leave.

I think being genuinely happy with your life without them says a lot too.

You can also remember the good moments without wanting the whole relationship back.

And you stop looking for reasons to contact them.

You also stop needing an apology or explanation before you can be happy again.

I think another sign is that you stop rehearsing old conversations in your head.

Sometimes you even appreciate what the relationship taught you without wanting to repeat it.

But I don't think moving on means you completely stop caring about them.

Yes. You can hear about them dating someone else without feeling like you've lost something.

True. When you move on, you start seeing new people as themselves instead of looking for similarities.

That's definitely one sign you're not fully over them.

Exactly. You can stop contacting someone and still secretly hope they'll come back.

I think you know you've moved on when you can think about them without feeling the need to reconnect.

So I guess you can be healing and still meet someone good, as long as you don't use them as a replacement.