Da li imate lični vodeći princip (ili mantru) po kojem živite? Ako imate, šta je to i kako utiče na vaš dosadašnji život?
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Oh,pa naravno da imam,više njih.
Zdravo svima
Provela sam godine i godine pridržavajući se nekih svojih previla.Bila su dobra pravila za sve oko mene,osim za mene.Zato sam u jednom momentu, kad sam shvatila da premalo brinem o sebi ,rešila da doteram ta svoja pravila kako bi i ja sama bila zadovoljna.
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Ja sam od onih koji veruju u ljubaznost
To svoje pravilo nisam menjala.
Dnevno hiljadu puta ponovim tu reč,i sebi i svojoj deci a i ponekim usputnim osobama😄
Moja deca već znaju šta mislim kad im samo kažem ljubaznost
Ćerkici koja je tek pošla u školu svaki put kad je ostavim ispred škole pre početka nastave, poljubim je u kosu i šapnem ljubaznost
Sinovima koji su već veliki momci isto,ako idu na sastanak,na posao,da reše neku nesuglasicu samo doviknem za njima ljubaznost sine,ljubaznost
Verujem da bi svet bio mnogo bolje mesto kada bi svi uvek bili ljubazni. Nadam se da ću bar svojoj deci uspeti da usadim takvo razmišljanje,u budućnosti kad budu svoji ljudi ,samostalni,možda će ćuti moj glasić kako im šapuće ljubaznost
Znate kako kažu ,ako želiš promene,kreneš od sebe i svog doma.
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Postoji još takvih rečenica koje ponavljam u toku dana,isključivo sebi.
Recimo kada god udjem u kupatilo ,ja se na tren pogledam u ogledalo, tek toliko da sebi kažem sjajna si ili volim te
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I to sa osmehom!
Čovek mora da misli na sebe,nije to sebično.A mala reč ,koja na početku deluje smešno dok je izgovaramo,posle nekog vremena postaje stub koji je toliko čvrst i toliko nam pomaže da ostanemo čvrsti i na nogama.
Sad kad mi je to praksa,emocije su mnogo veće ,ne izgovaram ih više mehanički,već sa iskrenom emocijom.
Tako brinem o sebi.
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Kada god se nešto dešava što poremeti planove,ja više ne padam u vatru,više nisam očajna i ne lupam glavu pitanjem zašto se to desilo.Samo kažem
ko zna zašto je to dobro
Nekim čudom uvek pronadjem razlog,i odmah se osećam bolje.
Često se oslanjam na svoju podsvest,verujem da je ona moja beskrajna inteligencija koja uvek ima odgovor na sve,samo trebamo postaviti pravo pitanje.Zato je meditacija predivna stvar.Kad god mogu odvojim koji trenutak za duboko disanje,umirenje.Tada je idealno vreme za ponavljanje naših afirmacija jer smo opušteni,tako i spremni da usadimo neku od sjajnih ideja u našu podsvest.Svest stvara ideju a podsvest je ostvaruje.
akcija i reakcija
Još jednu rečenicu bih izdvojila
Ja ne jurim, ja privlačim
Sve što mi je potrebno i sve što želim samo mi dolazi sa lakoćom
Ova mi je omiljena.Moram priznati da mi je u dobroj meri donela mir.Posle mnogobrojnog ponavljanja,ja sam počela celim bićem da verujem u te reči.I kako onda da ne budem mirna? Ja zaista verujem da sve što mi je potrebno pronalazi put do mene.Tako je jednostavno.
Pozivam 
Do you have a personal guiding principle (or a mantra) by which you live? If you do, what is it and how is it impacting your life so far?
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Hello everyone
I spent years and years adhering to some of my rules. They were good rules for everyone around me, except for me. That's why at one point, when I realized that I wasn't taking care of myself enough, I decided to adjust those rules so that I myself would was satisfied.
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I'm one of those who believe in kindness*
I have not changed that rule of mine.
I repeat that word a thousand times a day, both to myself and to my children and to some passing people😄
My kids already know what I mean when I just say kindness
To my daughter who has just started school, every time I drop her off in front of the school before classes start, I kiss her hair and whisper kindness
The same goes for sons who are already big boys, if they go to a meeting, to work, to resolve some disagreement, I just call after them kindness son, kindness
I believe the world would be a much better place if everyone was always kind. I hope that at least I will succeed in instilling such thinking in my children, in the future when they are their own people, independent, maybe they will hear my little voice whispering to them kindness
You know what they say, if you want change, you start with yourself and your home.
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There are other such sentences that I repeat during the day, exclusively to myself.
Let's say that whenever I go into the bathroom, I look in the mirror for a moment, just enough to tell myself you're great or I love you
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And with a smile!
A person has to think about himself, it's not selfish. And a small word, which at first seems funny when we say it, after a while becomes a pillar that is so strong and helps us to stay firm on our feet.
Now that it's my practice, the emotions are much greater, I no longer pronounce them mechanically, but with sincere emotion.
That's how I take care of myself.
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Whenever something happens that disturbs the plans, I no longer fall into the fire, I'm no longer desperate and I don't beat my head asking why it happened. I just say who knows why it's good
Miraculously, I always find a reason, and I immediately feel better.
I often rely on my subconscious, I believe that it is my infinite intelligence that always has the answer to everything, we just need to ask the right question. That's why meditation is a wonderful thing. Whenever I can, I take a moment to breathe deeply and calm down. Then it's the ideal time to repeating our affirmations because we are relaxed and ready to implant one of the great ideas into our subconscious. Consciousness creates an idea and the subconscious realizes it.
action and reaction
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I would like to single out one more sentence
I don't chase, I attract
Everything I need and everything I want just comes to me with ease
This one is my favorite. I have to admit that it brought me peace to a good extent. After many repetitions, I started to believe in those words with my whole being. And then how can I not be calm? I truly believe that everything I need finds its way to me. It's that simple.
I invite
Veliki pozdrav svim Hiverima od Dragane.
Greetings to all Hivers from Dragana.