Professor Mehtab Khanam of the Department of Education and Counseling Psychology Department of Dhaka University. He will give you the possible solutions to your mental problems. Put your problem in a few words. S
Problem
She was my classmate. We went down together and fell in love with her beautiful mentality. The proposal did not accept the first. Because, earlier he had a marriage. The separation of the four-month old family was a year before my proposal Once he agreed. We realized that it would not be a problem if established. About five years we have memorable campus life, there is deep love. But my family, who were left in the final result, Whenever we wanted to respect our relationship, nobody wanted to accept my love, even saying that it was wrong to give birth to me; They say, the girl gave me something to eat. I could not understand, I love the girl, love her knowing the past. I wanted to run away for some time, but because of her bad name, I did not do it. In the pressure of people of love day and day, I am going back to myself. I am not going to do anything wrong, but why are so many obstacles? What do I do now?
Negative suggestion to publish names and addresses
You have written that, if both of you were established, then there would be no problem in implementing the relationship. Is that possible now? That is, you did not mention whether you were established or not. You've got the girl to agree to the word. But when he said 'yes' to you, were you absolutely sure that your family would accept it very simply? You may know that in our country there is much less respect for girls compared to boys. At the time of marriage, the girl is seen to be very short, and the girl is undervalued, even though she is studying or earning money. Dowry is still being taken from the girl's family even with direct or sagittal messages. Since you were a member of this society, it was very important to keep these issues in mind. If you were to discuss your family with your family members before they were so involved with your life, then it would have been very good. After the relationship has become so deep, if you go back after considering the family's objection, will justice be done to her? Before she gets involved with you, she gets divorced, and such incidents create a scourge in someone else's mind. And especially in the context of this country, the incidence of divorce in the life of a girl becomes a much more alarming experience. He got the confidence from you but hoped for a new life and dream of a beautiful new life. The previous wound may have been very cure by this, you are going to give confidence to the hands. Now you realize that the role your family is playing is lying vacillating. The family is very important to everyone and there is no doubt. However, the way they unilaterally blame the girl's family, it is very sad. If you are closing your hands in this situation, then the problem will be more complicated. Take a good look at yourself and take a decision keeping your responsibilities in full compliance. If it is not wrong to accept him, will you just keep yourself in such a way that you think of his depraved? It is good to practice your rights by discussing how and how you can cross the next two days.
